There is nothing sexier than a confident man. We don’t care if you are tall, dark, and handsome; if you are insecure, we are not interested.
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Let’s be honest, sex is the one thing you share with your partner that you don’t share with anyone else in your life.
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There is nothing sexier than a confident man. We don’t care if you are tall, dark, and handsome; if you are insecure, we are not interested. The good news is that confidence will always play in your favor, and it is available to everyone. There is something so intriguing about it. Suddenly you become more intelligent, funny, compassionate, bold, and sexy. We know you feel the same when it comes to confident women, and that’s why we are here to share with you why you should never leave your confidence hanging in the closet. And if you don’t have it, below are the reasons you should figure out where to go find it. Here are a few reasons why confidence looks good on you.
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Good in bed.
Women love a man who knows how to rock her world. Let’s be honest, sex is the one thing you share with your partner that you don’t share with anyone else in your life. The more secure a man is with himself, the more exploratory he is in the bedroom. He will understand his limits, and pay close attention to hers. He will know when it’s time to take her to the moon, and when it’s time to keep it old school. Every woman loves to be a priority, and there is no better place to show her that than in the bedroom. A confident man knows all of her soft spots and shows her how to take care of his. He is the teacher, not the student.
Makes sh*t happen.
This one is important, we want a man who just makes it happen. Even an independent woman wants a man who shows up when he needs to show up. When things need to get done, he makes sure they get done, and in a timely manner. Date night means reservations are already taken care of. Something is wrong with the car means he has already scheduled an appointment at the body shop. Empty weekend schedule’s mean he is planning something fun for the two of you to do together. Oh, your work event got rescheduled for a night he already had plans, don’t worry, he’ll be there.
Secure with himself.
Secure men make a relationship easier. What woman wouldn’t love a man who doesn’t add any more drama to her life than there already is? He is not worried about what anyone else is doing. He is sure of who he is and what he wants, and he is not going to waver on that. He does not get bothered by other’s opinions, and he does not engage in gossip. His happiness is dependent solely on his validation and the people he surrounds himself with add value to his life. He has no fear of commitment or of stepping outside of his comfort zone.
Does not make excuses.
Women want a man who is true to his word. A confident man understands that excuses are only lies you convince yourself of. He makes time for the things that are important and is honest about the things that are not. He respects other’s time and does not commit to things he is not positive he will be able to follow through on. If he is wrong, he says he is wrong. He values respect, and excuses are not a symbol of respect.
Can hold his own in a disagreement.
A confident man is always going to enjoy himself and those around him.
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He is understanding, empathetic, and compassionate, but when he feels strongly about something, he is going to tell you. He knows how to meet in the middle, but sometimes things need to be his way. He does not argue without the facts; he knows that is pointless. He does not share his feelings or opinions to bring others down, only to be heard. He knows women also need to be heard, so even if he’s right, he will make sure she knows her feelings do not go unnoticed.
Always a good time.
A confident man understands that life is short, and every moment of it should be enjoyed. He doesn’t bring his work home; he believes in living a balanced life, and that means that time outside of work is precious. He is funny and has a great humor. He is always the first to be on the invite list because people love to be around him. It doesn’t matter if he is sitting at home watching a chick flick, at the pub watching the game, or on vacation in Mexico; a confident man is always going to enjoy himself and those around him.
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Confident men know that they may not be perfect, but they are definitely worth it.
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This post is republished on Medium.
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Very few humans are confident without insecurity, I guess that just goes to show the author’s ideal man is a unicorn. Am I attracted to confident women? Sure, will insecure ones turn me off fully? No. What happens when your confident man gets depression in his life? Do you kick him out and find another? You can miss out on some very amazing partners who are insecure if you are soo turned off by it. Many men get more secure in a relationship so help the man out with his insecurities instead of expecting people to magically be 100% awesome… Read more »
So…if you aren’t confident, just fake it, which many guys will interpret as ‘act like an arrogant douche’. Sorry, but this piece seems to convey values that are diametrically opposed to what GMP is supposed to stand for.
What do you do if you are not the confident man in the room? I am taking a 3 hour workshop at the Boston Ctr for Adult Ed next saturday. It is titled The Whole U. I am very much hoping I will be more assertive after I attend this next week.
“We don’t care if you are tall, dark, and handsome;..”
Or even a criminal.