For years, I’ve listened as fervor over guns climbs to a fever pitch, and firearm tragedies continue in America. As a former elementary school teacher, Newtown particularly shook me. The horrific terrorist attack in Las Vegas a few months ago—let’s call it what it was—had guns and the NRA back in the headlines.
I must admit that now, as the many sad times before, the zero/sum arguments being made by both sides over the Second Amendment strike me.
I live in New York City and frequently hear strong anti-gun sentiment from people who have never been around, much less, fired a gun themselves. I personally support MUCH stronger gun control. But when I think about guns, it brings me back to a childhood in Texas and I have to admit – it’s not that simple.
Growing up, shooting a gun seemed like a natural rite of passage. In suburban Houston, where I spent most of my childhood, all the boys had BB guns. I got mine for Christmas before I turned seven. Our BB guns were a source of play.
In our lily-white neighborhood, unlike urban areas of the city besieged by gun violence and police brutality, we had the casual privilege of feeling emboldened, and never fearful, of guns.
We shot empty cans off the top of old boxes, listening for the ping of striking metal. I aimed at pecans in my grandpa’s front yard tree in New Orleans. My brother and I had BB gun fights in the house when my parents were gone. The hits stung, but the guns weren’t strong enough to break skin.
We boys on the block had guns wars in the nearby woods. We would set a few logical rules – like no shooting at the head – and if you got hit, you were out.
The year I was fifteen, I went hunting for the first time with my dad. That’s how the boys I knew spent weekends during the Fall hunting season. I was at what was called “the camp” somewhere in West Texas, and I killed a deer on the first day there.
The men at the camp called a first animal kill first blood. In what looked like a hangar, the deer I had shot was hung on a hook.
Someone wiped the deer’s still-warm blood on my face and took a picture.
The photo of me, looking hilariously bewildered, was later tacked to a board full of photos just like it. I went hunting a few times after that. After high school, I never went again.
It wasn’t until several years after I stopped hunting that I first thought seriously about guns. In my early 20s, I went with my dad to a gun range for the first time. It was Texas in the late 90s. I had tagged along one Sunday out of equal amounts curiosity and boredom.
The gun range that afternoon was crowded with men when we arrived. Some had children with them, all of them boys. They shot rifles at bulls-eye targets tacked to bales of hay in the distance. Some of the shooters sat, balanced against a wooden backdrop, and some looked through binoculars between shots to judge aim.
The gunfire was continuous and seemed to come from every direction.
Even with ear protection on – which looked like oversized headphones, in camouflage green – the noise was intense.
Along with the rifle, my dad had brought a new pistol. The hunting rifle no longer interested me, but I had never shot a handgun myself. I was intrigued. I decided to try it.
Next to the rifle range was a separate handgun range. No one was there when a teenage guide in a reflective orange vest led me over. It was smaller, the targets seemed closer, and you couldn’t sit down to shoot – only stand.
The main difference between it and the rifle range was the targets. They were paper silhouettes of a person’s upper body and head – bull’s-eye on the chest.
Right away, it felt different from hunting. Holding a heavy, three-foot rifle was a stark contrast to a weapon that fit in my pocket. Facing the target, I shot the pistol with one hand, arm extended. I fired one bullet after another. Excitement almost immediately overtook me. It was so easy, and it was so fast. I shudder to say it now, but I actually imagined myself in an action movie as I shot. The bullets were spent in seconds.
Despite the exchange we also see in America with horrific regularity — between law enforcement and unarmed citizens — we white folks have little reason to picture ourselves on the receiving end.
When I stopped shooting it hit me – what I was actually doing. It was one of those moments when you suddenly feel shockingly naive.
What a handgun lacks in heft it makes up for in power. The power isn’t in the kickback; there was surprisingly little. The power I felt holding this piece of metal in one hand was a sudden awareness that it was specifically made for shooting people, and that I was shooting not at something, but someone.
I may have missed the bulls-eye every time, but it wasn’t for lack of trying to shoot squarely in the chest.
I shot the one round of bullets that afternoon, and I haven’t fired a gun since. Still, when I hear gun enthusiasts, from Texas and elsewhere, boldly proclaim their fundamental right to bear arms, I get it. When they’re as deeply entrenched in the culture as where I grew up, guns are guns – whether it’s a BB gun, a hunting rifle, or a handgun. I was an adult before I made a definite distinction between them.
And yet, something that happened when I was in elementary school gave me a glimpse that not everyone shared the same attitude we did towards guns. A boy had just moved to the neighborhood from England and came to my house one afternoon. As we were pulling a board game out of a bedroom closet, he saw a collection of guns in the back. He was shocked.
He immediately said his parents shouldn’t know there were guns in our house or he could never come over again. I remember laughing uncomfortably. It wasn’t out of ridicule. I was truly confused.
It would be many years, several dead animals, and my turn playing with a pistol before I understood.
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