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Have you ever thought: “If I could just be more confident, everything would fall into place?”
Men often come to me thinking confidence is the key to being wanted, successful and happy.
Confidence is a big part of what helps you have more ease, fulfillment and passion. But the problem is that many men have a false idea of what confidence is and think it has to do with being good at everything!
In today’s Man Alive podcast episode I talk with Beacon Driscoll, a men’s coach, about how confidence is not actually a thing to strive for, but a measure of six other aspects of the choices you’re making and actions you’re taking in your life. Unless you know this, it can be challenging to find or build confidence.
In this conversation we cover:
- What confidence actually is
- How to stop striving for confidence and start building it (You don’t have to fake it til you make it!)
- The six ways you may be eroding your own confidence
- Why you can stop needing to be right — it has nothing to do with confidence
- Brian’s story of finding work and an authentic style that made him feel more confident
This is a POWERFUL episode to demystify confidence and help you start building it today!
Even men at the top of their game find themselves wanting more from life. Man Alive is the resource for men who want more meaning, a bigger impact, unshakable confidence, a hotter sex life, more money, deeper love, solid friendships or a powerful legacy.
A version of this post was originally posted on ShanaJamesCoaching.com and is republished here with permission from the author.
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