First dates can be stressful, they can also be fun and exciting. However often we overlook the red flags that signify that this person is not a keeper and we should immediately move on.
When we have very little time invested in a relationship, it’s much easier to move on with our own lives. Why waste time with someone that’s not ready for a healthy relationship? Why waste your time with someone who is already devaluing you?
Also, don’t forget, many of us fall into a type of codependent persona like the victim or the savior. Don’t fall into this trap in the very beginning. Watch this video and be aware of what to look for. If you see some of these red flags, move on quickly so you have the opportunity to find a relationship that works for all concerned.