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Yeah, that’s right. Why are you so afraid of your sexual energy?
Do you know how many women I work with on a regular basis, that have absolutely no idea how to turn their sexual energy on?
So many that I often wonder whether they’re unaware or just scared.
What are you so afraid of?
Here’s the deal: we are men. We are visual. We want you to cock your head and flirt.
We want you to look at us and bat your eyes. We want you to rub up against us in a bar and boob us.
Do you know what that is, being boobed?
Let me tell you something: whenever I go out in the bar, there will always be that woman that walks past me in the crowd, rubs her breasts against me as she passes, and says, “Oh, excuse me.”
I’ve just been boobed!
And they do it on purpose. They’re using their boobs as flirting tools.
And let me tell you—it gets my attention every time.
I can feel your prudish nature cringing right now. Because you’re thinking to yourself, “I would never boob a man in a bar. I would never be that dirty, naughty girl that boobs a man.”
Why not?
Why not boob a man in a bar? You might actually enjoy it. For those of you that have sensitive nipples, you might actually get aroused boobing a big, burly man’s back, slowly caressing your boobs across him as you pass.
Okay, so I know that most of you are not going to boob a man in the bar, and this really isn’t about the drive-by boobing.
This is about you turning on your sexual energy everywhere you go and flirting with men regularly.
Play the damsel in distress.
“Excuse me, Mr. Man, are the hotdogs good here?” You can pull that at any ball game.
Most women don’t have any idea how simple it is to really flirt with men. All we want to do is have you engage us in a conversation. Give us anything, anything that we can work with.
You could be at Whole Pickup. You could have eaten there 1,000 times. You could see a guy at the deli counter, and you could look at him and say, “I don’t know what’s good here—any suggestions?”
He will go into Mr. Fix-It mode, and seek to solve your problem—food and otherwise. 😉
Whether you are going to be a damsel in distress, or you are going to be the woman boobing men on a Friday night, you’ve got to turn on your sexual energy in order to get a guy intrigued.
There are no ifs, ands, or buts about it.
If you don’t learn how to turn on your sexual energy, you’ll end up home alone watching reruns of When Harry Met Sally and The Notebook, crying your eyes out wondering where your Noah is.
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