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In this era, the phenomenon of infidelity is a common one. It is a costly affair that causes pain, heartbreaks, divorces, financial loses, violence and mental breakdowns. Yet, people don’t cease to do it. Many times, people in such strenuous relationships, often end up doubting themselves. They question their personalities, their lifestyles, their job, their skill-sets and even their sanity at times. Ironically, according to experts, it’s not the lack of character of the opposite partner that tempts women to infidelity. The relationship may be an ideal one but sometimes, the desires or aspirations take a higher ground. Therefore, today, we shall try to discover 5 simple reasons about why women cheat on their partners and help you work towards the betterment of your relationship to avoid this messy situation.
Sexual excitement
The most common reason for infidelity is the lack of sexual desire towards your man. You may no longer feel the passion or excitement to be close to the one you choose to spend your life with. Many women are open to experimentation in their bedroom but often fall prey to the regular sex that their tired partners offer after a long day at work. For men, it’s just a release but for women, kinky sex is the key to re-invent the wheel of love.
Lack of attention
Neglect is the most common emotion that people in an unhappy relationship complain of. Once we have started taking our partner for granted, we often fall behind to put any effort in maintaining a healthy relationship. This leads to neglecting your partner. When women are neglected, they go through massive depression that closes doors to any kind of affection. And at this time, if they find someone who takes care of her and makes her the queen of his universe, she may as well go with him.
Low self-esteem
When in an unhappy relationship, especially with a partner having an extramarital affair, women often suffer from low self-esteem. They doubt their self-worth and would stoop to any level to be loved again by the man in their life. When a woman goes through this phase, they head out to seek the validation of being their true self, who is attractive, smart and highly popular.
Revenge
Anger leads you to do many things that you may regret later. Revenge sex with someone outside of your relationship is one of the ways to show your partner how angry you have been on them. Though, it may seem like the right solution at a given point in time, revenge sex not only hurts the feelings of the person indulging in it but also the man who has opened his bedroom and his heart for the lady. There are times, revenge sex is a result of curbed passion and lack of attention over a period.
Seeking happiness
All the above points lead to one core reason for conducting infidelity, happiness. Be it a man or a woman, whenever they find someone who compliments their personality, makes them feel wanted and important, counts their decisions, respects them and makes passionate love to them, they shall always head to that person. So, in order to avoid your woman cheating on you, you need to find ways to keep her happy. Little things such as cooking for her, cleaning your bedroom, looking after the kids when she is unavailable can really help maintain a relationship.
With the above points, men can look for signs of unhappiness in their partner and work towards it. If the intention is right, there will be a way to reignite the dying relationship.
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