Finding out how to successfully flirt with women is a skill that a lot of guys do not really know. Whenever I hear of guys using the same worn out pick-up lines like their grandfathers used back then, I realize the reason why so many guys are getting frustrated with their dating lives. Lines like “can I buy you a drink?” or “do you come here often?” no longer work at this day and age when flirting with beautiful women and I wonder if they ever have been.
The good thing is if you really want to know how to properly flirt with women and you’ve witnessed your endeavors at approaching women too difficult to achieve then here’s something different from the old-fashioned recommendations. These three little-known tips on how to attract incredible women with flirting and how to be precise with it ought to be a breath of fresh air.
1.- No More Mr. Nice Guy
The key in flirting with women is to understand how attraction works on the other end. Women are mostly interested in men that can make them feel secure and safe. They are simultaneously turned on by this. Giving her everything she wants and playing the role of the nice guy makes you an expendable to her. Men who play this type of mind games don’t stand a chance against a man who completely understands flirting and its impact on women.
As weird as it sounds, a man who does everything his woman wants him to do doesn’t make her feel secure at all. It is a sign of being submissive as a man and this is not right because women naturally want men that are dominant and strong-willed. Women want men that can protect then that is why playing the role of a nice guy most of the time fails to work in attracting women.
2.- Be Unpredictable
What should you do to make your woman feel secure, safe and enthralled? Another key to answer that question is by being unpredictable and leave her guessing of what’s going to happen next. You have to be able to balance your act with all of these. Your aura and volatility has to be tempered with maturity and responsibility to create the perfect balance of qualities.
By far the most straightforward way to achieve this balance is by gently preserving your core values, regardless of whether she approves of them or not. Yes, you’ll lose some because of this. Most high-quality women are considerably a bit keen on men that they cannot easily control. Simply because you’re attracted to her doesn’t mean she can push you around. You have to stand up for what you want and what is fair for both parties involved.
The women that most guys want are so used in being surrounded by many men competing for her attention using the “nice guy” approach. They already expect that attitude from all the men who approach them. Women are already bored with this and if you are able to set yourself apart from the rest then you’ll be less predictable and thus more exciting to be around.
3.-Find a Way to Handle All Her Tests
If women do not really want men who do everything they ask for then why would they try to put men in a position where it seems this is the best way to win them over? Easy, this is because women love to test men if they are good enough to stay on course or eventually fold up. If you fail at the tests that women give out then there is no chance that you are able to score her.
Most of the time, these tests are easy to recognize due to the lack of reason and logic. Passing these tests would be easy as long as you maintain your position and be consistent with flirting according to the tips that we already have outlined above. You also need to be evasive but poke fun at her silly tests. As soon as you are able to successfully pull this off then you’d surely put yourself ahead of the rest of the pack.
Practicing the following tips on how to properly flirt with women takes effort. As soon as you practice them long enough then everything just becomes natural and unforced. You will soon reap the positive results of these tips but keep in mind that there could also be some failures along the way. Nothing is 100% guaranteed but I can assure you that your batting percentage would be sitting way up there. You may not get to attract all the women that you want but you certainly able to attract at least most of the ones that you want. Simply said, you just can’t have them all.
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