A man is desperate to find out why his school-teacher girlfriend wants to bleach her ass.
Originally appeared at She Said He Said
Dear Sexes: The other night my girlfriend told me she wanted to get her asshole, or anus, bleached. She wanted to know what I thought of that idea. I froze up, and then our almost discussion got interrupted. How am I supposed to respond to this? My girlfriend is a high school teacher, and as far as I know, she doesn’t have a secret job as a porn-star or stripper. I don’t think she has an inordinate amount of people staring at her butt or butthole. Personally, I don’t know much about anal bleaching, and the little I do know just confuses me. Why would people go through the trouble to bleach an area that so few others see? Also, bleach in the anus? Isn’t that dangerous? Help please!
As far as the process itself, from what I understand, anal bleaching (done correctly) is safe. The process is completed through the (continued) application of a cream, and results happen over time. The cream should not contain chemicals (as active ingredients) like Kojic Acid or Hydroquinone.
Remember, the best thing you can do here is have a conversation. Find out why your girlfriend wants to bleach her anus. Perhaps she thinks it will make her feel sexier, or even cleaner. Maybe she’s just curious. Regardless, if she knows you support her, she’ll feel better about whatever decision she makes. In the end, it’s her anus, and she’ll do with it as she pleases. FYI, there are also creams for nipple and vaginal bleaching, but that’s just between you and me (and hopefully not your girlfriend).
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Stop complaining dude. You gotta girl that’s probably a freak and likes to take it up the butt. I can’t find a girl like that for the life of me. I get the boring vanilla chicks!
if sex is so boring to you, you know you could actually do something else in life other than sex like get a real skill, why is a normal girl boring because she doesnt stick something up her ass? secondly, that is not sex by the scientific definition of sex, it is “putting something up your butt”.. I think you watch too much TV. normal men don’t want sex up the butt, that’s some weird crap, TV told you was normal, about like sticking your finger up your butt to make a guy have an orgasm.
what’s the best way to promote gay marriage? have men and women have “sex in the butt” so people call it sex…….. then when it is “sex”, men and men can do it………………. I wonder how many couples tried sticking their finger up their husbands butt because “American Pie” told them it was a thing.
You guys are so last week. I’m getting my anus darkened this weekend!!!!
I did it… and it has just made me feel a lot sexier.
Awesome! I bet the guys will enjoy licking it more now too!
Sorry to say, she’s getting ready to ditch you…
In my day it was lose some weight & get a new hairdo.
I want to really give the guy that wrote in, asking this question, a lot of credit. I really like that he is concerned about his girlfriend’s health, over her aesthetic look, and went even a step further to seek out help by writing in. Really, that’s quite awesome. I think he should just talk to his girlfriend about it and ask her why she wants to do this. I personally think that anal bleaching is just another thing used against women to make them spend money and time worrying about their looks. Just another product being sold to women… Read more »
I think it might help if he were to talk to her and draw out her reasoning for wanting to do this. She might be doing it thinking her guy wants it done or that she is going to surprise him with a new bit of sudden sexiness.
And if the reasoning is somehow tied to him THEN he needs to have the sit down and tell it it’s not that serious.
Okay. That does it. I’m leaving this country.
~ Ex Hippy
If it’s not dangerous, I don’t see how it’s much different from a tattoo or piercing in the underwear region. Whatever floats her boat.
Actually, seeing as tattoos and piercings do carry with them a certain amount of potential problems…I’m thinking bleaching actually sounds safer. Go figure.
The first thing I think of when I hear “anal bleaching” is the feeling of bad food and a night on the toilet kinda pain, I always figured it would burrrnnn, does it?
You lucky guy! I bet she’s bleaching because she expects someone to notice… probably you. Stop freaking out and have some fun.
At what point would a lover’s altering their body in unnatural ways in order to please start to creep you out? in my opinion, any at all speaks of a disturbing lack of autonomy.
I don’t know… Cutting off a finger? Is it creepy to tan? To brush or whiten your teeth? To diet or exercise? To trim your fingernails? Or just the butt stuff?
Even the guy giving advice above says it’s safe. So… Who cares? Isn’t it common knowledge that many, maybe most, women like their men shaved (no beards) and snipped (no foreskin)? So, I don’t get to upset if someone’s girlfriend wants a lighter anus.
Yeah uhh I find the comparison to whitening teeth kind or any of the rest quite odd, since like a bazillion more people get to see your teeth/skin/nails than your arse. You literally have to crawl between a person’s arsecheeks to see it ànd be rather out of it to then think “hey this anus is a bit darky to my liking”. It’s true that people can do whatever they want, and if they feel okay with smearing bleach on their anus that’s their thing, but I would make sure it’s not done out of some misguided idea of what… Read more »
If it’s someone else’s arse and no one’s going to see it, why do you need to “make sure” or “feel very comfortable” about any of it? But if it comes down to who sees it, I’d guess more people will see her bleached anus than her molars. Depending, of course on how often she switches dentists and lovers. What if it was a tattoo that would normally be covered with clothes? That she wanted to get for whatever reason? Would you care? Can you honestly say lightening a bit of skin is more invasive and significant a procedure than… Read more »
Agree… she wants you to explore it with your tongue and package…. have fun… giddy up!