How do I overcome not only jealousy but feeling like I’m old?
People often ask me if they should leave their partner, and I cannot make that decision for you, but I can tell you what I would do in your shoes to figure out a decision.
Treating depression requires a combination of efforts, and there is no one size fits all solution.
I am so sorry that this happened to you. I am so sorry that you have spent however many years beating yourself up over this.
The first time the topic of children came up, everything was super positive, but then a few months later he kept hinting that he wasn’t sure whether he wanted children at all.
I think about her all the time, but I am focusing on me at the moment.
Normally I would just block and delete said person who couldn’t be bothered to be upfront and tell me what’s going on, but because of the other relationships and connections, that might mean having to tell a mutual friend what happened and causing problems which I’d rather not do.
I feel like I’m in a situation that is a bit over my head.
There are few things more uncomfortable than being a witness to a friend’s or family member’s unhealthy or abusive relationship.
I don’t know how to tell you to stop comparing the two. If you were head over heels for this person, you wouldn’t be spending all this time in comparison land.
I bet that nearly everyone has, at one time or another, thought about someone else while having sex.
Your question is a question that I get A LOT — some variation of one partner essentially ghosting the other one within the relationship.
It’s extremely exhausting feeling like this, but I don’t know what to do.
You are not overreacting. But, you may have to realign your expectations.
But reversing the bias and seeing men as bad, doesn’t help solve our relationship problems.
I kicked him out for two weeks; he came back after we started therapy.