Psychologist Dr. Jennice Vilhauer explains the psychological and clinical reasons why *we* are at the heart of *why* we’re not living the life that we want in this fascinating talk and what we can do about it.
getting what you want
Please tell me what you want, not what I have to do.
The mind is powerful. And I’d rather tell my mind what to do, than it tell me what to do.
You don’t need some crazy D-Day type battle plan. All you need are some simple steps that you can start taking today.
A bold invitation to let go of the pain you’re tolerating in your life and go after the pleasure you could be experiencing.
What you do now will make all the difference in how high you soar this year.
Trying to get something done? Learn how to ask the right questions.
You’ve probably guessed that most of those detour signs are of your own making. Here’s how to deal.
Rejection may not be a lot of fun, but it can offer a huge payoff if you know how to handle it.
Should-statements don’t work. They do provide important clues about our needs and expectations though.
Your dream job: What is it? And how do you get it?
Whether it’s asking your love to find more time for you or getting the kids to clean their room, this is how to get what you want.
If you’re uncomfortable being assertive you might need to rethink what assertive really looks like.
Three tips for turning “No” into no big deal and making “Yes” even sweeter.
If you are a hard-working hustler, you may find yourself hustling in the wrong direction.
We may not be getting what we want, but we’re always getting what we believe.