My son hates sports but I want him to try some new ones. How do I know if I’m encouraging him or pushing him?
Raising teenagers who you enjoy being around and who enjoy being around you involves more than not screaming at them.
Demonstrating respect without enabling.
I don’t believe she’s the only teen who feels this way…
If we continue to think of bullying as primarily a schoolyard phenomenon, and overlook its seeding in the caustic repartee or controlling humor that dot our many different social dialogues, we will be blind to one of the ways in which our culture insidiously feeds intimidation and various plays of power.
Ditch the questions and become interesting enough that they want to talk with you.
The problem isn’t that the information or wisdom itself is bad.
Ever wonder why your teenager takes a pass on your advice? Especially when you know for a fact that it’s really good?
Boys with bad sportsmanship act poorly not because they’re boys, but because they haven’t been taught or they haven’t learned that such behavior is unacceptable.
If you’re trying to get a read on the quality of your son’s sportsmanship, spend time observing how he handles his emotional reactions to winning and losing.
Games are games but they’re not free-for-alls. You don’t get to act any way you feel like acting just because you say you’re competitive, as if doing so gives you license to be ruthless.
Big, strong, athletically gifted boys have always dominated the social landscape of childhood.
If we can’t envision males who are empathic and masculine or strong, then how the heck are we ever going to raise them?