The patriarchal cultural pressure that enforces the cultural norm that women cannot be sexual predators does a grave disservice to men and women alike.
sexual attractiveness
When Sapiosexuals (Try To) Date
How do you know if you're a sapiophile?
— By Kelly James Have you always felt a little “different” from your friends when it came to the kinds of people you were most attracted to? Read on. I considered myself something of a late bloomer when it came to having crushes in high school. While my girlfriends were sitting around at recess with the…
Aging Out: The Nuts n Bolts of Transitioning into the Gay Man’s Limbo of Middle Age
Intra-generational discourse is key to increasing the understanding of aging experiences within the gay community.
Intra-generational discourse is key to increasing the understanding of aging experiences within the gay community.
Dating Advice for the ‘Big, Hairy, Scary Guy’: A Call for Submissions
Please don't tell him to shave, lose weight, and drastically alter his personality.
Please don’t tell him to shave, lose weight, and drastically alter his personality.
How this Husky guy Overcame his Body Image Issues and Learned to Embrace his Size
— By Graham Gremore “The devil and the grave are never satisfied, and neither are we,” 28-year-old David tells Attitude UK in a frank new interview. “Of course, I’d love to be a muscled Adonis with a face fit for billboards, but then I wouldn’t be the person I am today.” David recently participated in the magazine’s “Real…
“You’re Too Skinny”: Body-Shaming in the Gay Community Works Both Ways
"Sometimes when I look in the mirror, I see this skinny runt with very little muscle. Narrow wrists and ankles, thin body and, when I lift my arms, I can see my ribcage."
“Sometimes when I look in the mirror, I see this skinny runt with very little muscle. Narrow wrists and ankles, thin body and, when I lift my arms, I can see my ribcage.”
Men, Body Image, and Sexual Attractiveness
What body image issues? This former-fat-kid-turned-burly-bear is sexy and he knows it!
What body image issues? This former-fat-kid-turned-burly-bear is sexy and he knows it!
The Haircut Test
Steve Axelrod got a haircut. And what people say to him about it—or don’t say—says it all.
Fat Dudes Are Hot
Marianne likes lots of kinds of bodies, and fat dudes are on that list.
Yoga Pants Nation
Yoga pants aren’t just for the yoga studio anymore. And if the trend doesn’t die soon, Nathan Graziano may be doomed.