Hi kids, Billy Francesca here, live in West Hollywood. I’m breaking down barriers’! Ageism!
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Just me and my Kevin- “Kevin- 23”
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Ooh! We’re already busy
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Kevin’s two years older than my actual kid.
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-Older guys tend to approach me from like a place of less sexual charged emotion.
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-“Hopeful romantic with a quick witted sense of humor. Dates long-term relationships not hookups”
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Do you think a lot of men lie on Grindr about their age? -Maybe.
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I don’t think people lie, I think most just don’t say. I mean I feel like age is nothing by the number. That’s separates you
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Sometimes you get younger guys who will say “are you generous?”
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-Yeah. Everyone’s fantasy is if you’re above 45, everyone’s like are you “Gen? Gen?
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Question mark are you generous only?”
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What do you think about sugar daddies? Do you know what that is?
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-Yeah fuck it! Hell yeah! We’re in the era of the sugar daddy! I know!
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Now, are you looking for a sugar daddy ? No, dude you look for a sugar daddy
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Sugar daddy, absolutely. I’m the daughter, but the pretty people only
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Get a job more power to whoever can really can stomach it the thing with
01:15
Sugar daddies is when you get old. What happens to you?
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All the time: “you want to hop in my g6 and we’ll go to we’ll go to France together” and
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Like we’ll take my kids. Don’t worry about my wife. She’ll be in the backseat
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You know, I need a sugar daddy and I’ll say so do I boil me with a trip somewhere?
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I haven’t had a vacation in a long time
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I can keep multiple times to get on that level or take me shopping or cash is good suppose
01:40
He wants Amazon gift cards – yeah, what’s about time? I thought it’d be cool for a sugar daddy
01:45
I thought I would love life workout. No, I realized that I want to be self accomplished. I don’t want to rely on another man
01:52
Daddy, you wanna get your own it’s not about age with me. It’s about fit. Plus. I act like a fun teenager
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Anyway, I just feel like running back boner shrinker. I don’t want a four to five girls who lacks like a 23 year old
02:03
It’s well, it’s embarrassing. I own my age. I’m 47 years old
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I’m fucking proud of it and age is just a stigma in the gay community
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and I think people should put on their window wipers and like wipe it off because
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Again at the end of the day, we’re all gay guys
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Come sit with me on the couch. Come get cozy. I’m not getting up
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I’m old but now you you don’t like the word daddy because I’m a dad in real. I mean, that’s not my category, right?
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I don’t know. Yeah, so it’s like you’re not gonna set it as your tribe. I’m Rinder
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No, I did once accidentally and my inbox has never blown up more than I did and you were 50 for a while
02:35
Yeah, I thought it was actually nice. I liked it
02:38
Oh because I struggle a lot with with meeting guys who are older they typically more mature and it’s are you more relationship oriented?
02:45
Yes. Oh, yes
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I know Kevin. I was just Kevin you’re just kidding
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Kevin tell me the truth cuz they’ll hurt my it won’t hurt my feelings, but I need to know what people mean to me
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No it was more like the
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assumption that you were sugar daddy just because you’re all so what’s up I can feel and you will spoil me I can use a
03:01
New TV nothing big maybe just a 42-inch. What is this Santa baby right now?
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You know, look at I think everybody is entitled to have, you know age specificity that is attracted to them
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I think people can tend to lose their manners because there’s an anonymity to it
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Right, and I just think you know like try to be a little bit polite. That’s gorgeous. Thank you guys for talking to us
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what I haven’t so well spoken I
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Wish I’d said something clever for 280 –
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Do you guys think I mean to mean?
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Because people that movie like that
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middle-aged
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Fat musician, he’s just bitter. Well, of course, I’m bitter. I’m from Boston
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Well, it’s like we have two speeds bitter and bitter ER
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