“I’m not sure if I’m ready for a relationship with you right now…”
Nobody wants to hear these words.
Especially when it’s coming from a guy you genuinely like.
Someone you’ve invested time and energy in… and someone you think could be THE person for you long term.
It leaves you wishing he could just get over his indecision…
If that sounds familiar, then I have the simple solution right here:
Because, there IS a right way and a wrong way to handle this situation…
The wrong way is to try and convince him of all of the reasons you’re a great fit (even if all of these reasons are true). Because it can accidentally push him further away…
The right way to handle this situation is to meet his confusion with love and kindness, but also strength and respect for yourself.
(Because here’s the crazy thing: this is actually a phenomenal opportunity to demonstrate YOUR status as a high-value woman who he risks losing… )
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