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Salt [Video]

 

By Omeleto

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When Olivia’s father has to go into the hospital for an operation, she and her mother Margaret find themselves picking up the slack at the medical facility and home. Olivia seems tired and also dealing with disconnection from her husband, who still hasn’t joined her.

Amid their father’s hospital stay, Olivia’s brother Guy and his girlfriend Anna come to visit, fresh off Guy’s art exhibition. The scattered family gathers together, but long-simmering tensions — particularly between the siblings — come to the surface.

Directed by Raphael Chipperfield from a script co-written with Nina Berry, this keenly observed family drama — also produced by Ludovico Zanette — captures how the edifice of the family can cover up the fissures of long-standing resentments and unresolved issues. Yet issues make their presence known in times of challenge and chaos and transforming relationships in the process.

Like many family stories, much of the drama and tension exists on a more subtle, psychological level, tucked away underneath the easy everyday conversation and the business of daily life. The storytelling sets up the dynamics of Olivia’s family with care and deliberation, taking time to observe the psychological status quo of the group.

Olivia’s parents are affluent and somewhat bohemian, thanks to their mother Margaret. Olivia, we come to understand, had artistic ambitions but didn’t quite achieve them. However, Guy and his French girlfriend Anna have had more success pursuing the creative route — all while Olivia holds down the fort at home, quietly observing how her brother is supported and indulged.

The viewer has time to take in these dynamics, aided by a visual approach that also privileges the space and freedom to observe. Many of the shots and framings — lensed with a cool, luminous palette and lighting — tend towards stillness, and are wider in framing, as interested in the world around these characters and space between them as it is in the emotions experienced by them privately.

There are fewer close-ups than typical for this kind of story, but when we see them, we observe how Olivia, for example, often holds back her real thoughts, and the excellent dialogue also captures how the patterns of communication often require family members to hold back feelings to maintain its equilibrium.

Actors Olivia Vinall and Edward Ashley, along with veteran actor Tara Fitgerald as the matriarch, deftly delineate this complex dynamic with naturalness, and Vinall and Ashley also capture the rapport of siblings who were once close but have grown more distant over the years. As Olivia makes some discoveries, she finds herself unable to keep the family harmony any longer, opening Pandora’s box of painful reflection and realization.

“Salt” has a coolness and reserve that keeps this knotty emotional terrain from becoming too melodramatic, but a fundamental core of honesty and vulnerability pays off with a relatable, affecting ending. The two siblings, competing with one another for some time, become the conduit to help each other face their fears and limitations. We understand that they’re as lost and struggling as anyone else, and certainly, none of their problems are solved by the story’s conclusion. But they come to understand that they have one another, which may be the biggest gain of all.

 

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00:13
so i’m going to offer the
00:14
tickets to someone else let’s do that
00:17
okay i um
00:20
spoke to the doctor
00:24
and they said that you’re it’s going to
00:27
take a day longer
00:30
that’s what they say did he speak to you
00:32
i don’t know why
00:33
it has to take a day longer
00:50
no the operation was fine yeah but um
00:53
where are you downstairs
01:09
oh hey nothing it’s just my brother
01:13
yeah they’re in there you can go in um
01:16
oh i told you it’s fine it’s fine don’t
01:17
worry about it uh just
01:19
we’re gonna take mom home and then um
01:21
you’ll come by there later yeah
01:24
okay bye
01:30
look at this beard why does everyone
01:32
wear beers these days
01:34
beers are for people with something to
01:35
hide i don’t think i have anything to
01:38
hide
01:40
salt oh lovely
01:44
have you guys seen each other already
01:45
yeah in the corridor look and i bought
01:47
this salt from that trick
01:48
sorry i should have got something better
01:50
but it’s it’s low sodium
01:52
nonsense is lovely thank you
01:55
how was it yes how was your exhibition
01:58
guy
02:00
group show fine yes
02:03
it was great let’s talk about dad no
02:06
it’s not how long are you going to be
02:09
here
02:09
oh long a couple of days oh do i know if
02:12
you want to go to
02:13
the theater i’ve got some tickets and
02:15
you can’t go now
02:18
what play is it it’s a it’s a check off
02:25
who cares they’re all the same all right
02:28
don’t
02:28
say that you love the theater i like
02:31
going to the theater there’s no one just
02:33
to check off
02:34
they’re out there in the stick somewhere
02:35
all sitting around saying
02:37
should we go to moscow how do you get to
02:39
moscow let’s go to moscow if you want to
02:41
go to
02:42
moscow then go to moscow
02:46
my dad’s never had that much tolerance
02:50
for existential angst i’ll leave all
02:52
that to your mother
02:53
she does enough existentialism for both
02:55
of us would please someone take her away
02:58
actually come on we should be going
02:59
because the doctor said visiting hours
03:01
are over so mom should we go
03:02
i’ve only just got here we’ve been here
03:05
most of the day
03:05
so hospital rules
03:09
all that thanks for coming
03:14
megan right now okay
03:37
okay dad uh do you need any more light
03:39
in here okay
03:40
thanks holly mm-hmm darling can you do
03:44
me a favor
03:45
yeah of course can you transfer some
03:46
money from the
03:48
deposit account into my character card
03:50
really how come
03:51
there’s not a problem just running a
03:53
little low
03:56
i don’t want to ask your mother how to
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do it
04:00
i’ve written the passcodes down at my
04:02
desk impenetrable security
04:06
daddy sure it’s okay all right i’ll see
04:08
you tomorrow
04:10
have a nice evening and get your mum to
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relax okay
04:13
are you sure you’ve got enough light
04:15
okay bye
04:17
hi holly polly sorry could you just
04:20
give me a sec thank you of course dad
04:24
love you no i’m not in today
04:28
what sam knows about it he said he
04:29
covered for me hello
04:33
hello
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when he’s telling those crappy jokes you
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know
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it’s like
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yeah it’s okay
05:00
how’s that everything where you are i
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know she has some big news
05:03
big news this is big news so
05:07
i got accepted to goldsmith oh that’s
05:10
great that’s where olly went
05:12
like a thousand years ago yeah he told
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me
05:29
there’s actually a guy he’s really good
05:30
too and he’s quite nice
05:32
is he weird there’s one woman who’s less
05:33
good family is like praying that she’s
05:35
gonna be busy mum
05:38
do you think we could borrow uh dad’s
05:40
car for a bit sure if you guys
05:42
aren’t going to be using it what do you
05:43
need it for
05:46
it’ll just be really useful bro hannah
05:49
off at work i can take stuff to the
05:50
famous as well what does it matter to
05:52
you all you and
05:53
callum have a car i’m not saying it
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matters i’m just interested
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only it’s not a problem nobody’s using
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it
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[Applause]
06:01
i was just asking it’s not a big deal
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oh mum you’ve changed everything around
06:21
oh no not really i don’t know what to do
06:23
with that room it’s too big for us
06:26
such a mess
06:40
have you ever noticed that anna always
06:41
tries to make guys seem old
06:43
no so weird like with the beard thing
06:45
it’s like he’s only a couple of months
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older than her
06:48
i was going to make dinner i thought i
06:50
had some pasta
06:52
sorry she seems like she wants to
06:54
categorize herself as being younger or
06:56
something it’s
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weird i wanted to cook for you it’s so
06:59
nice you guys being here it’s like
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you’re
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small again
07:10
mommy what is him oh come here
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that’s fine i said he’s fine i know he’s
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fine
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it’s just suddenly hit me you know this
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is
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us now we’re the old people
07:26
you are not the oldest
07:32
she’s just a bit exhausted i haven’t got
07:34
anything nice for you guys to eat
07:36
that’s why i don’t know i can cook if
07:38
you like no look why don’t we just get a
07:39
takeaway and then no one has to do any
07:41
washing up
07:42
okay yeah i’ll come with you i’ll come
07:44
with you one well what about anna
07:46
it’s fine she’s had a long day of course
07:50
um what do you want what do you fancy
07:52
mom
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mandarin it’s going to be the man’s room
07:57
yeah okay do you think she’s okay
08:00
yeah she’s fine she’s just a bit tired
08:02
for being stuck in that little room all
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day
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is cal gonna come by tonight i feel like
08:14
i haven’t seen him in
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ages yeah he’s gonna try and come by
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later it’s just
08:19
seeing if he can get out of work at the
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moment
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well thanks for doing all the stuff
08:26
around that’s operation
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it’s fine no i couldn’t miss that
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opportunity to show my work
08:34
be there
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guy it’s not a problem i i don’t mind
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doing it
08:44
okay thanks all
08:49
what’s his name john
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hello hi hi how are you doing
08:56
i’m just gonna leave you want to get a
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takeaway sure
09:07
did you get any vegetables um
09:11
yeah i got something
09:14
maybe i’ll just go and get another one
09:16
no it’s fine i’ve got like a set menu
09:18
for four there’s gonna be something in
09:19
there
09:20
well if it’s just one thing it seems
09:23
like it’s an afterthought and
09:24
that’s just how it seems come on
09:28
look if you just want to say your piece
09:30
can you get it out now what piece
09:34
about anna you know you’re constantly
09:35
digging up okay here we go right
09:38
this is why you came with me isn’t it i
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knew you would have some ulterior voice
09:41
ever since she said the thing about
09:43
hannah at his school you’ve been back
09:45
biting her
09:46
no i haven’t yeah well
09:52
what is it because you you know you’re
09:53
jealous overall jealous
09:57
i don’t know i don’t know
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what she i suppose she’s doing something
10:02
she really wants to do and
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what’s the what is okay why don’t we
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just try not talking for a bit yeah and
10:11
seeing how that goes
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fine
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you know maybe if i didn’t have to look
10:28
after mom and dad then i’d be able to
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don’t
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it’s my fault because i went to my
10:33
opening during the operation you said
10:35
you didn’t mind
10:36
you literally said you didn’t mind ten
10:38
minutes ago you said it two weeks ago
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i’m gonna tell you what’s right i’m
10:40
wrong okay guys if you don’t want to be
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at the operation
10:43
i don’t want to make your decisions we
10:44
all have to make our own decisions
10:46
yeah yeah fine
11:40
uh
12:22
huh mum what’s his name on dad’s
12:25
computer
12:26
i don’t know what does it say what’s
12:28
guy’s thought code are you giving him
12:29
money
12:30
i have to ask your father about that
12:32
well why can’t i ask you about it
12:34
because your father organizes that kind
12:35
of stuff i don’t want to get involved
12:40
but mum you are involved
12:43
look if he asks us for money what do you
12:44
want us to do about it tell him we can’t
12:46
help him maybe
12:47
i mean how long do you plan on helping
12:49
him out for just until he gets sorted
12:51
when’s he gonna get sorted mom you heard
12:53
anna say she’s going back to school soon
12:55
could you give me a home of this class
12:56
for stock
12:59
you know i don’t know what you’re
13:00
worrying about you and you and callum
13:02
are doing so well
13:03
and of course we’d help you out if you
13:05
ever needed it
13:07
i would never ask you mom maybe you’re
13:09
different so you need different things
13:10
at different times
13:11
i used to say that we’re different what
13:13
makes us so different of course you’re
13:15
different
13:16
what do you mean how do you know that i
13:19
wouldn’t want to do what guy’s doing or
13:21
anna
13:22
look sometimes we just have to try and
13:25
make things work
13:32
okay
13:36
the shows they come up with i saw one
13:39
where a woman chooses a man
13:40
based on seeing his penis
13:45
i wish i was lying how on earth did you
13:48
did you watch that
13:49
just flicking through the channels at
13:51
hospital that’s around us
13:59
thank you
14:08
actually a guy and i were watching a
14:09
show last night it was this
14:11
dating show and they would have couples
14:13
come on and then they would hypnotize
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one of them
14:16
and then they would send them back out
14:17
on a date but it was like they’d never
14:19
met before
14:22
really funny yeah it was but
14:27
it’s embarrassing to get emotional about
14:29
that kind of stuff
14:32
why would anyone appear on that show
14:35
why not what could it possibly achieve
14:40
i don’t know it was nice because you
14:43
know these couples they would they would
14:44
fall in love with each other again and
14:47
it kind of confirmed that they were
14:49
supposed to be together
14:51
i try so i’m fine
15:23
i don’t know you you take away all the
15:25
mess and
15:27
all the things that build up between
15:29
people and that
15:30
people think their relationships rely on
15:33
them
15:35
underneath this just this connection
15:43
they stage all that stuff anyway
15:47
i don’t know it seems pretty real no guy
15:52
no
15:58
it’s really good yeah it’s really good
16:02
thank you oh you got it
16:05
thank you okay thank you
16:22
that’s pathetic what is not taking on
16:26
the salt
16:27
why didn’t want any yes she did you put
16:28
regular salt on your food
16:30
she bought it for mom and dad it’s
16:31
expensive i’m not gonna waste it you do
16:33
really gonna do this tonight
16:36
why do you care what i make your most
16:37
recent girlfriend you know what’s so
16:38
messed up about this
16:40
is the fact that it’s more important for
16:42
you to prove something than it is just
16:43
to get along
16:44
you know usually you’re you’re you’ve
16:46
got time for everyone but you’re
16:48
becoming
16:48
vindictive i’m not vindictive you know
16:50
what are you doing
16:52
it’s actually easier for us not to do
16:54
this do what
16:55
what you know what is this see each
16:58
other
16:58
maybe if you knew how much this pains me
17:02
mum i’m sorry i don’t know what else to
17:04
say but i really wish you you’ve always
17:05
been so close
17:06
please don’t say anything that you
17:08
regret please
17:10
being close can be just because you
17:11
spent time together
17:13
do you know what mom actually i’m gonna
17:14
go so uh i’ll take the bin with me
17:30
yeah anna i’m dropping ollie off at home
17:34
i’ll be 20 minutes
17:36
away oh wait
17:41
i know dad’s sending you money
17:46
he told you that no so how did you find
17:49
out i wasn’t looking for it
17:51
he asked me to transfer some money into
17:52
his bank account and i saw your details
17:54
on a post didn’t know
17:57
right what do you want me to say is this
17:59
going to go on for guy they can’t
18:01
support you forever
18:02
tell me if they couldn’t afford it maybe
18:04
you shouldn’t put them in that position
18:05
you’re an adult
18:07
i know well it’s just
18:11
you go you’ve got to realize
18:15
i don’t know maybe it just seems a bit
18:16
absurd to me that anna’s buying them
18:17
gifts with their own money
18:20
anna doesn’t know i’m i’m borrowing
18:22
money why not
18:24
because i haven’t told her okay where
18:27
did you think it’s coming from guy
18:30
i don’t know i guess she thinks i have
18:31
savings or something that’s a bit
18:33
self-deluded don’t you think
18:35
honestly oh it’s not it’s not her fault
18:40
i don’t know
18:45
like she could take some responsibility
18:53
don’t you think you should tell her
18:54
before she starts her full-time
18:55
education
18:58
which is your partner i thought you were
18:59
transparent
19:06
no i guess i didn’t want to admit it to
19:09
her because that would be
19:11
the same as admitting it to myself admit
19:14
what
19:17
i’m [ __ ] it all what the [ __ ] am i
19:20
doing
19:20
guys you’re doing so well you just got
19:22
back from your show i had two photos
19:24
in it and nobody bought them what the
19:25
[ __ ] what i don’t know what the clue i’m
19:27
doing that’s not true
19:29
it’s true why would i say it if it’s not
19:31
true
19:33
no i don’t
19:37
i just maybe i should be doing something
19:40
else
19:40
didn’t do something else like what
19:45
i’ve always been the creative one
19:48
and the truth is the only reason i can’t
19:51
turn back is the
19:52
fear of turning back you know admitting
19:53
to myself the last 10 years
19:56
have been pissed away yeah i can get
19:58
things to
19:59
a point good ideas but then i just
20:02
self-sabotage
20:04
you know i was always potential people
20:06
you’re so good
20:08
and maybe i sabotage myself in order to
20:10
remain
20:11
potential rather than real actual
20:16
and [ __ ]
20:21
i didn’t know you felt like that yeah
20:23
well i do
20:32
now
20:34
why didn’t you tell me
20:37
you know why what the hell does that
20:39
mean guy
20:40
because you’re you you’re solid i’m not
20:43
solid you are
20:46
god everyone keeps telling me that
20:47
everything’s ahead of me you know but
20:48
it’s not
20:50
it’s all done everything’s behind but
20:52
you you at least you had those 10 years
20:54
you know
20:56
what do you mean you’ve had all these
20:57
experiences guy you’ve got to go
20:59
traveling and
21:01
i was just here stuck like
21:04
and i thought it’d be fine because at
21:07
the end of it there’d be some kind of
21:08
reward at least there’d be something
21:12
i thought at least i had cal you know
21:21
and everyone i know did it they all went
21:23
and did it and
21:25
then they came back and they’ve met
21:26
someone and they’re all having babies
21:28
and they’re just so
21:29
[ __ ] shiny and new
21:39
cali
21:43
it just finds me more and more desperate
21:48
please he thinks i’m pinning all these
21:51
expectations on him
21:56
just
22:10
i can’t believe this is us holly polly
22:32
do you remember that time
22:37
mum was looking after us all weekend dad
22:39
had to stay at the office to work and
22:41
she said she was gonna buy groceries and
22:44
we just came out and saw her sitting in
22:45
the car not doing anything
23:08
time to go home
23:29
[Music]
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[Music]
25:01
you

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