
The good news is that you can make your own effing roles.
Who is to say that you can’t? Like when I was a kid my family was told that is a Pomegranate tree in front of the house

No, cribbing for later.. i want to quickly write this mini post .. you know when I do this i realize that slowing down is so streess free. For a second there, it feels like it’s going to be alright.. who would want a lifetime of that?
Sometimes i wonder that it is going to be boring, if everyone started being honest about everything and if all was allowed to be it, where it will love, respect, peace, kind.. because the alternate seems so comfortable, so normal… so usual..so not straighforward but then what if? how would it be? not very difficult to find out, really.. everyone would just have to be zen. Easy queasy! 😀
See, that’s what I am saying.. you can make your own rules… own stuffiness. I make all my own rules.. some I borrow of course. Of course, who likes being told what to do.
There is some-times not only one way to find out.. sometimes there are do(2). \
My zen is be and let bee.
sometimes you know by doing.. sometimes you know by using facts and logic.. sometimes your gut tells you.. sometimes your health tells you.. sometimes the music tells you.. sometimes the water, sometimes icha?
But oftentimes we only listen to our caregivers.. cux we as society are raised to be the sheep (the real ones are cute tho).

if you ask why, I will tell you. But Believeit, it is just my opinion. It started somewhere butt (that reminds me of the bhatts — pandits — experts of ancient kashmir who had all teh knowledge and wisdom and experts (whetever they are called there) from different lands kept coming and exchanging their wisdom but evidentally speaking our mouths were better off. Now how best to shut the mouth and eyes if not by fear.. and how best to instill fear if not by movement and chaos) I feel the answers are right in front of our eyes. All this information overload and history overload and opinions overload and war overlord and basically all that information which are just opinions are taking you away from facts and action. What if you just got up and started!
How would that feel? only one way to find out?
Well, it does feel marvellous, honestly.. dopamine fucking rush!
I like smiles. and that’s my number one rule.
A smile for me and a smile for all (:
The real kind!
Truly,
A f(r)iend! 3:D
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