When It Comes to Sharing My Relationship Experiences

An hour ago, I just wrote this. Within minutes, it got approved.

As the scheduled publishing time gets closer, I feel a little bit nervous.

Relationships can be such risky topics.

Because it can be one of the most painful areas of life for so many of us.

Having gone through painful challenges in a marriage that ultimately ended in divorce, I know how many emotions it can activate in us whenever we encounter such topics.

How would my readers relate to what I wrote?

Would it remind them of something painful?

Or would they find some comfort and even hope?

Would they feel a sense of resonance with my story?

Or would they feel upset with what I expressed?

There are so many people, and so many experiences and perspectives.

And being vulnerable in front of many anonymous readers feels scary.

And yet, I remember how I often found articles and content from fellow brave souls that helped me.

Their vulnerability made me feel that I’m not alone.

Their courage inspired me that change is possible.

And their insights helped me become more aware of my own situations.

Years ago, I was this woman who felt lost.

I didn’t even have the right words to describe what was going on.

Love wasn’t supposed to hurt, yet we often ended up hurting each other.

But I wanted to help others, just as I needed help.

I truly believe that love can become something beautiful, as long as we don’t give up.

So I dared to start sharing, one story at a time.

Mónica Valverde is a daydreamer navigating the experience of human life. She’s in love with Spirituality, Inner Work and Relationships.

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