The Human Cost of War
All returning soldiers have stress psychological stress injuries; it is just a matter of degree. There’s no bright-line test for who has PTSD and who does not. The longer-term impacts of the brain damage from repeated head trauma are just now being understood. There have been 2.2 million soldiers in combat in Iraq and Afghanistan. The RAND Institute believes 20 percent have suffered brain injury. While those injuries vary in severity, research at Home Base (a joint venture between Massachusetts General Hospital and the Red Sox Foundation) shows that over time, those injuries—which affect roughly 500,000 American veterans—will become much more acute.
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You don’t get it. There will never be absolution. Apologies for this sort of thing aren’t once&done. They have to be endless. You will never be absolved. Maximum time between apologies is about fifteen seconds. More than that and you’re part of the patriarchy.
“Why aren’t more men apologizing to women for these injustices and why aren’t we talking about this issue?” I can express deep regret and sadness at the way some people have exploited others. I can’t really apologize on behalf of people who have not given their permission for me to be their spokesperson. Imagine if as a “white guy” I apologized on behalf of all white men and all white women for all the bad things that white people have done to others. In that case would it be okay for me to speak for hundreds of millions of women?… Read more »
Although I support your right to have any conversation you want with this forum, I think publicly funded elections, localization and the diminishing social and economic value of Wall Street are conspicuously missing from the list.
The underlying anger in this country is very real…as you have noted…but nothing is being done to address the conditions which create a lot of the feelings of fear and powerlessness plaguing all but the wealthiest people.
By breaking out the prison and correctional population by ethnic group, Tom has done one of two things. One is to accept that incarceration and other forms of criminal correction tracks pretty accurately with criminal activities. Thus, the ethnic groups mentioned are far more prone to commit crimes than are whites. Or he could be implying that such disparities reflect racism or something else which is doubleplusungood by society in general and criminal activities are not different between ethnic groups, but are roughly the same. The difference in incarceration rates is due to, perhaps, racism. Maybe something else, but not… Read more »
One in 77 adults is behind bars and the U.S. correctional population—those in jail, prison, on probation, or on parole—totaled 7.3 million, or one in every 31 adults. Of the 2.3 million criminals behind bars, almost half are African American and the vast majority are male. Nearly one in three black men aged 20-29 is under criminal justice supervision, while more than two out of five have been incarcerated. One in 15 black children and one in 42 Latino children has a parent in prison. Question. By chance where did you get those numbers from? I’m not trying to dispute… Read more »
Danny – I’m not the author, but I’ve had to write a couple of papers on this for school, and I’ve found that those numbers are easily available. You can google for things like “prison demographics” and get links like this: http://bjs.ojp.usdoj.gov/index.cfm?ty=pbdetail&iid=1006 Also, although wikipedia isn’t the source for everything, they do link to the outside sources where the information comes from: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incarceration_in_the_United_States#cite_note-bjs2006-32
I don’t care where you’re from or what color your skin is… If you have a job, positively contribute to society, AND PAY TAXES LIKE THE REST OF US!!! Then you’re all good in my book…
Erin. Well, you can see the kind of folks who apologize. I figure the commenters are probably normal people who got really annoyed at the video. Another AA, Ann Althouse–an attorney,, has a blog with this issue. She was appalled as were her commenters. It is cheap amusement to apologize for something you haven’t done. Get all the credit and not have to worry about, you know, actually having done the thing. Mark Steyn noted that the Titanic disaster resulted in the loss of about 75% of the men and 25% of the women. Not too many years ago, a… Read more »
The amount of women that die of childbirth around the world every year dwarfs that number.
343,000 a year. Mostly due to lack of affordable and accessible health care/prenatal care.
Sara.
Missed the point. The point is whether the change from mostly women surviving because the men chose to put them first in the Titanic disaster to mostly men surviving in the Baltic ferry disaster because they’re stronger than women and put themselves first is progress.
After all, women are no longer being pedestalized, or whatever the word is.
Good? Bad? Not interesting?
“The amount of women that die of childbirth around the world every year dwarfs that number.
343,000 a year. Mostly due to lack of affordable and accessible health care/prenatal care.”
…And this has what to do with anything? Sorry, you can’t blame biology on men.
Oh, and the people that made the medical advances that ensure that this number isn’t much, much higher? The majority were men.
Erin,
Amy Alkon has a piece on apologies by men. Comments are interestting, as well.
A female friend sent me the video and it kind of freaked me out.
I did read Amy’s response and thought it was pretty interesting
as were the comments.
I’d really like to talk about this phenomena: apologizing to women for the harm that has been done to them and why more men aren’t taking it upon themselves to behave consciously as the REAL men in this video choose to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K_uRIMUBnvw Throughout history, men have given themselves more privileges then they afforded women. Today, men have built a whole industry dedicated to stereotyping and objectifying women for just sex. Men still hold most positions of power and men still make more money on average then women. Why aren’t more men apologizing to women for these injustices and why aren’t… Read more »
Erin, I’m not going to appologize for anything done by a collectivity which I am arbitrarily assigned to. And I’m CERTAINLY not going to do it because two guys who look like stalkers at an anti-abortion rally urge me to.
Sorry, I also refuse to play the “collective guilt” game.
Sorry – this video = instant gag reflex. It’s so terribly self-serving and, well, paternalistic. And the insincerity, it burns. Yuck.
I’m a firm believer of changing gender roles, of adopting a dramatically different behaviour towards women, children, family, etc. etc. I believe I contribute. At the end of the day is only makes sense – as has been remarked so many times before, patriarchy hurts men, too.
But none of that is going to make me like new age-ish rubbish videos.
Erin you’re taking a guesture that those men are making and turning it into guilty by gender association. Frankly put I don’t own women anything just because I share gender with the men that have harmed them. Why aren’t more men apologizing to women for these injustices and why aren’t we talking about this issue? Mainly because the majority of today’s men are not responsible for those injustices. Now if you want to get into collective guilt then how about apologizing for the things that women have done to men in the past? apologizing to women for the harm that… Read more »
My mother was a single woman stricken with a crippling disability who worked full time and raised two boys who would have made Cotton Mather run for the hills. She didn’t ask for apologies or point fingers at men, some of which had treated her with incredible injustice…she just went out and got what she wanted with an unholy demonstration of will power and guts.
Quit playing the victim and get yours!
I don’t want an apology. I want equality.
Where’s the love? Difficult question. I don’t think anyone knows.
Ref. Immigration in AZ.
1. Illegal immigrants are…illegal. That’s a crime.
2. Nobody said ALL our problems stem from immigrants. Or if somebody did, cite, please.
3. You said “immigrants”, not “illegal immigrants”.
4. See California with the expenses of illegal immigrants being part of the state’s bankruptcy. Being illegal, they’re not supposed to be here.
Richard,
” Illegal immigrants are…illegal. That’s a crime.”
No, that’s a tautology.
Immigration law, in my opinion, is largely irrational, unethical and biased. It is, in short, bad law. And nobody is ethically required to obey bad laws. You cannot ethically make human movement illegal.
California has many, many problems and I am not at all convinced that a significant number of them are caused by illegal immigrants. But hey, here’s a solution: make those people LEGAL if they get on the tax rolls. Problem solved.
Thaddeus. Tautology or not. Illegal immigrants are illegal which makes it a crime. Your views on immigration laws notwithstanding. Up until, say, the Sixties, most immigrants were interested in assimilation, either actively or as a function of living in the US. Since then, some, including Hispanics and Somalis and others, have insisted on retaining their own culture and language. Cultures vary, as I have quoted Sowell, and differences have consequences. If all cultures were equally useful, there’d be fewer reasons to leave countries whose primary cultures are whatever they are. I have a niece in LA. She’s big on diversity,… Read more »
Long form answers are a step up from multiple choice exams, but I would be cautious by about holding up A-Levels too high. There is still a fair amount of room for rote learning rather than use of critical faculties. In most subjects you will be taught the standard form for structuring an answer. Teaching also inevitably ends up geared towards getting everyone to pass their exams rather than much more than developing their knowledge on a topic.
Thinking about it though, I guess that’s more a problem with exams in general than with A-Levels specifically.
Agreed teaching to any test misses the point. But teaching to a multiple choice test is particularly misguided.
Tom,
This is probably a bit of a tangent, but I think you handled the confrontation with the angry driver very well.
What I heard you saying about that was the driver was smaller than you, so you didn’t feel threatened by him. I can only urge extreme caution if there is any assumption that smaller men are less dangerous. I’m probably reading your narrative wrong, but I had to say something to save you from unpleasant surprises about that in the future.
Scott you are right. I probably should have said I was scared, and frankly wanted to make sure the guy didn’t have a gun or knife before I said a word. Still his anger and violence (he keep pounding me on the chest) was frightening. Specially considering he had broken the law by trying to run me over in a cross walk…and there was nothing to get so upset about other than built up rage at life.
I realize the list items have to be short and concise, but there are some details that need to be examined: On Fatherhood: Living in a single-parent household is not the same thing as having only one parent. In terms of single-mother households, the father could be involved but not live in the house. I’m not saying lack of fathers is not a problem, but the stats are not quite as gloomy as quoted. On Immigration: “We” Americans also include Native Americans, so it’s not exactly “us” versus the natives. (I guess that was the larger point, that “we” are… Read more »
agree on the impatience of the modern world (though I plead guilty on that too) and that the fatherless children stats are hard to parse exactly. I was just going on what is in the census. And on immigrants yes my first hand experience is that the immigrants, legal and illegal, are prepared to bust ass to make a life for themselves.
Ref. education. Non-hispanic whites in this country do about as well as anybody in the world.
As Thomas Sowell said, cultures vary and differences have consequences.
One consequence is in attitude toward education.
Who said immigrants are the source of all our problems? Cite, please.
How about the law passed in Arizona and being considered by a dozen others regarding illegal aliens?
Oh please, Richard Aubrey.
Stop trying to create a fantasy world where Arizona’s racist law, and rightwing screamers like Limbaugh and others who denigrate immigrants on a regular basis don’t really exist. Except they do.
You strike me as an insincere f–khead, frankly–Someonbe incapable of an hinest discussion on this subject.
Hate much? Keep baggin’ that tea.