There’s a way out of the trap of sexual success. All you need to do is redefine what it means.
I Refuse To Be One Of “The Good Men”
Charlie Glickman explains why assuming the position of “not like other guys” creates more problems than good.
Cisgenderfluid – Defining a Flexible CIS Gender
Charlie Glickman asks, “How do I describe myself when I’m simultaneously a cisgender man and gender fluid?”
Sex, Shame and Letting Go of “Should”
Learning to let go of the toxic shames and developing a positive relationship with shame is an ongoing process.
Men Telling Women To Smile = Unpaid Emotional Labor
Charlie Glickman talks about the difficulty many men have with managing their own emotions, and the expectation that women will do it for them.
Our Porn, Ourselves
Charlie Glickman maps the sexist anti-porn arguments of radical feminist Robert Jensen.
Hitting Puberty at 42: Testosterone and Me
When Charlie Glickman started using testosterone treatments, he found himself feeling like a teenager again—for good and for ill.
Escape the ‘Act Like a Man’ Box
One of the primary reasons that boys and men gay bash and bully queers is that they need to perform masculinity in order to show the world that they’re in the Box.