This is What Real Fatherhood Looks Like

Juan C. Gonzalez takes a photo of himself and his son flying through the air every single year. See more at Lime Fly Photography.

Tender, surprising, and brimming with love: these are images of real fatherhood.

 

We asked Good Men Project readers what Real Fatherhood meant to them, and how it looked in their day-to-day lives. Here are some of the amazing photos, stories and tweets you shared with us during our #RealFatherhood campaign.

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Dave is very at ease with the fact that he has twins.

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#RealFatherhood means cuddling, hoping, adoring, yelling, worrying, watching, accepting how little we control, reveling @
@TMatlack
Thomas Matlack

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Gabe and Pierce – even their toes match.

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Mark Greene and son. More fun at MegaSAHD

Yes, sir, I do believe in the power of Post-Its.

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#RealFatherhood means... getting down in the sandbox with your kid and making little dinosaur caves. You gotta PLAY, man! @
@megaSAHD
Mark Greene

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Marcus Williams and twin daughters

Are you both listening?

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#RealFatherhood is doing whatever it takes- especially when pride & fear arise. And always, affection first- even when laying down the law
@TornadoNate
Nathan W Gates

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Charlie Capen and son Finn. More fun from Charlie at How To Be A Dad.

One of us has put on his happy face.

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Chris and Sammie

There’s no party like a tea party…

…except maybe a princess dress-up party.

“Is my tiara on straight?”

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Alberto and Quentin

There’s gotta be a better system for this.

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Single image (not photoshopped!) courtesy of Lime Fly Photography

They didn’t know about my broom!

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Ryan and Marc

 For Ryan, being a good dad is about being a part of what his kids love.

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#RealFatherhood is getting facial reconstructive surgery right before afternoon nap. http://t.co/imeiqfyy
@zjrosenberg
Zach Rosenberg

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John, Hailey and Heather with friends

When John said he wanted to be chased by a mob of females, this wasn’t exactly what he had in mind…

No, this is way better.

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Also read: “Stitches? Nah” – Matt Peregoy’s dad teaches a lesson in self-sufficiency.

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See more: The Happy Aspie/Flickr

Bek Caruso’s husband, Jeff, and their son, Alex. Bek and Alex both live with autism, and Bek and Jeff also live with ADHD.

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Matt and Alex. See more at Randy Schroeder photography 

1-2-3 Jump!

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@ #RealFatherhood is admitting you know the difference between a standard and fine tipped nail polish brush. #NoShame
@TheDaddyYoDude
John Taylor

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Baker Wright coaching his son in his first round of T-ball.

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Christopher and Derek

 Some of the best moments in fatherhood are the quietest ones.

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#RealFatherhood means... Reading a book & holding your children close as they fall off to sleep. Its peace, love and hope... @
@megaSAHD
Mark Greene

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Photo by Maria Allebring

The comfort of Daddy’s arms.

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Also read: “Fatherhood and the Black Community” – Tim Brown hopes that someday he, too, is up to the challenge of his daughter’s braids.

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Emily Heist Moss and her dad. Read more from Emily at Rosie Says Blog.

Mr. 90s Dad

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#RealFatherhood is helping me replace a belt in my car in the snow, even though it could have waited. (@)
@deannaogle
Deanna Ogle

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Lamont holds baby Mya in the NICU.  His wife Amie explains the type of father Lamont has been to their  children:

“I’m married to a guy who used to sing Elton John’s “Your Song”, and read the classic version of Peter Pan to our dying daughter. He made a great Tink… Here he is holding Mya about 2 months before she died. He was going on probably less than 3 hours of sleep over 2 or 3 days, which actually was pretty common because he worked and then spent every waking hour in the NICU.

Read more here

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Ivan and Izac

 Baby in blue at the center of the universe.

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@ @ #RealFatherhood means: Being there. How it's changed: We enjoy being there (most of us). Fav Mem: Every1 of 'em.
@SportsDadHub
Sports Dad Hub

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Dr. Adam Sheck and his daughter winning first prize in a pie eating contest at a father-daughter picnic.

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Antonio, Gina and Stella

Silly Daddy!

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#RealFatherhood Noting the 2nd time a 5yr old walked off in sad disgust cos you brushed her off to get 'space' and vowing there'd be no 3rd!
@DoctorMikeReddy
Dr. Mike Reddy

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Jon D. writes: “She made me understand the absolute power of real unconditional love.  I can not think of anything she could ever do that will make me not love her.”

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Also read: “A Moment” - From the moment his son was born, the kind of father Steve Marsh wanted to be began to change.

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Nathan, dad of Owen and Aria. “They are my world.”

The perfect smell of a sleeping baby’s head.

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@ #RealFatherhood means giving your kids not just a shoulder to cry on, but one to ride on too. http://t.co/lg4a0i4n
@Bluecontra1
Cale Helmer

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Josh and the girls. Photo by Erin Gant

Daddy Tickle Monster

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Lamont with Javen, Max and Ty. See more photos by Amie Lee

Peeing lesson

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Matt and Alex, by Mathias Johnson Photo

And into the future, Daddy forever more.

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Okay, this #RealFatherhood business is probably my favorite hash tag ever.
@lendamico
Len Damico

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Comments

  1. wellokaythen says:

    Very sweet. How am I supposed to be cynical and trollish when you put up stuff like this? That’s not fair…. : – )

  2. Von Newman says:

    I loved my dad but he never, ever hugged me nor told me that he loved me and he never said “Well done.” These photos bought tears to my eyes.

  3. Ashleigh says:

    This post brings to the fore a multitude I emotions for me, a surviour of domestic abuse – with my father being the perpetrator… It’s beautiful to see that, for most, their fathers are forever changed and provide unconditional love – its also nice to see those realising their actions and vowing to change them for the sake of their child/children. It’s also overwhelmingly sad, that I know not of this love… Never underestimate its importance.

  4. Joy says:

    Awesome Awesome Awesome pics and comments…I looove the Ivan and Izac pic…it’s so beautiful to see dads so involved and so there…oh, this is Awesome…sorry to y’all who never had these beautiful moments, Von Newman, Charles and Ashleigh…I wish you love in your lives…my dad was a great man, passed when I was 11, but I’ll never forget the piggyback rides and the goodnight kisses..nothing really can replace a dad’s love

  5. Kismetdream says:

    I applaud you guys for this. Being a daddy’s girl, this just reminds me of those times when I was younger. May your tribe increase :)

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