One Sided & Two Sided

Love is present everywhere but sometimes it’s one sided and sometimes it’s from both side.

ONE Sided love is a inner feeling of love for a person but in that case other person doesn’t have the same feelings for you. You love them so hard irrespective of they not having feelings for you coz it’s true love and “True Love Is Unconditional” You love them more than yourself, they are more important to you than anything in the world. You invest lots of time & energy thinking about them,doing something for them to make them feel special, etc. You love everything about them and you treat them as if they’re god. One sided love is beautiful, the heartbreak is also a beautiful feeling it hurts but ultimately you grow and learn so it’s a win!

TWO Sided love is a inner feeling of love from both sides, basically both the person have feelings for each other. It’s a beautiful journey of love, where you love someone more than yourself and get the same back. You treat them as if they are god and vice versa. It’s very rarely seen specially in today’s generation but if you find one keep them!

Know the difference!!!

Sometimes you have a crush on a person but you start thinking & saying you love them! But it’s not love. You don’t love that person ; it’s attraction due to looks, money, etc. it’s generational love, having a crush on someone doesn’t hold a tag of “True Love/ One Sided” Stop using strong word like love just like that, especially for generational love.

Well sometimes it’s one sided leaving you confused that it’s two sided. For eg, you love someone truly and the other person also loves you but it’s generational love. You’ll witness these cases alot where one is attached and the other is not so in as it’s generational love. These cases generally don’t work out, it’s always a heartbreak at the end if it does then it’s all about adjustment, disrespect, mistreat, fights etc. In the beginning you may feel butterflies but ahead in the journey you may have to face toxic behaviour, fights etc. Try not to get into such an relationship coz at the end it’s not gonna work out and you do not have to adjust with someone you love. You don’t deserve the toxic behaviour, it’s either two way or a Bye! Simple. If you’re receiving toxic behaviour, fights, disrespect, negative energy from them in return of your love Walk Away!

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This post was previously published on medium.com.

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