What is “Masculinity”? What does it mean to possess masculinity? What does it mean to be a masculine man? There are many different ways to define masculinity. As it should be.
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Masculinity is… Magnanimity. A masculine man is generous. He gives of himself in every capacity which he can afford. He does not limit his giving to any one time of the year, but gives to others every day.
Masculinity is… Altruism. A masculine man cares for his fellow humankind. He prioritizes the well-being of his loved ones. He is not afraid to care for a stranger, no matter how different the other person may be from himself.
Masculinity is… Social conscience. A masculine man is aware of his surroundings and aims to positively affect his community. He is committed to leaving the world a better place.
Masculinity is… Compassion. A masculine man is sympathetic to the suffering of others. He cares for others when they are going through difficult experiences because he himself knows the struggles of trying times, and he is grateful for those who are present for him when he is in need of comfort and care.
Masculinity is… Unification. A masculine man is a driving force in bringing his community together. He celebrates the differences of others, and he teaches his children to do the same.
Masculinity is… Love. A masculine man is endearing and fond. He understands that his love is the greatest gift which he can give, and he is proud to be able to offer his affection to his family and friends.
Masculinity is… Integrity. A masculine man is dedicated to living his life by his values. He is unafraid to admit his mistakes, and he strives to improve his character every day.
Masculinity is… Natural. A masculine man is unapologetically himself. He embraces his individuality and recognizes the wonder in his unique talents.
Masculinity is… Inspiration. A masculine man is an example for others. He is a leader who encourages the best in both himself and those around him.
Masculinity is… Tone. A masculine man is firm in his character. He is dedicated to being his best self. He is also able to identify the tones of other people and his surroundings, and he is able to conduct himself accordingly.
Masculinity is… Yes-ability. A masculine man is agreeable. He is diplomatic and pursues harmony. He recognizes that he does not need to possess the largest presence at all times, and he is as confident in the background as he is at center stage.
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This post is republished on Medium.
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