Memory Bank

Memories…

Throughout your entire existence and essence of life, the only thing that will definitely stay in you and with you will be your memories, good or bad, and you will have to live with them until the end of your days and nights on this spiritual plane.

Learn to make good use of them, store the bad ones in a file where you can consult them whenever you are about to make a new decision, always remembering that they were not so bad, because after all you learned and grew a lot from them.

Whether it was with a great love that was not reciprocated, with the absence of a father or mother, or even those who did not have a father or mother and always felt alone, or disappointments with people you thought would never be able to hurt you again, that dream you did not fulfill, even because you are living a different life, the life of your dreams, everything has an explanation and a good side, you just have to know how to see it.

As for good memories, they are always followed by nostalgia or great joys.

If you have a good nostalgic memory, don’t be ashamed of it, cry as much as you need to, look at photos, read letters, watch videos, or simply say how much you miss something or someone. It’s always good to know that you’ve lived something so good that it left you with longing.

If it’s joy, smile again, dance, sing, celebrate, visit, quench your longing and you can speak freely, doing this you will feel in the same place or with the same person or even feel in the same situation experienced on that so dear date.

There are people who go beyond with their memories, they manage to transform sadness into jokes nowadays, giving them a new meaning, a new drawer in their file, the fact is that nothing you have experienced can cease to exist and no one can have access to it without your consent.

Therefore, you have a lifetime to choose how and where to store your memories, life is short, sometimes just a breath or a blink of an eye, so live everything intensely, without restrictions, because your only obligation here in this world is to receive and give love, some receive more, others less, some give themselves completely, others lock themselves up in their fears and unresolved feelings, but we are all capable of love, hope, dignity, honesty and fraternity, and if you learn to make good use of your memories you will end up realizing how much you have lived or not lived, who chooses that is you and no one else.

Because happiness is nothing more than a state of mind.

Think about it and live your memories intensely, mistakes and successes!

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This post was previously published on medium.com.

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