Men, Being Single Is a Blessing

It is a declaration older than National Treasure.

Men have a one-track mind. And they think about sex more than anything ever. Yes. I would agree this is so.

While most women (me included) decompress from a day with wine, long baths, and a show.

My male friends want intimate friction and boob grabs. But some ex-podcast bros found the light. Lots of women want to be alone.

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They want nothing of you.

It’s not a phase. But a wait to find partners who will treat them better.

Some women want to invest in themselves. They need time to elevate romantic interests and heal trauma. Men have realized this.

But there is one thing more effective than the above realization.

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Some realize they got played.

Men who have it all still cannot get a good woman. They claim to hit the gym daily and earn six figures.

But you know they beat their meat hard. The veins in that one loving hand bulge out. Doctors would drool over that arm (because easy injections, lol).

Peace = solution. People who fuel their anger are never happy. They also never see answers. Everything is a problem.

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Guys who accepted the change in women found peace.

Hello, stay-at-home dad and partner era.

They left the single breadwinner purpose behind for balance and joy.

Here’s one of many men who have grown to enjoy family and home time.

Taylor Loren was the head of marketing for Glossier and a marketer for Later. She quit those jobs to sell an IG Reels course. Her business also allowed her husband to leave his office to work with her. He will manage the backend, like the finances.

It’s okay if the man plays the supporting role.

More men have realized this. They live happier and with greater comfort because of it.

During and after the pandemic, women started businesses. Men worked remotely. Offices have called them back in like a mother to a naughty child.

They don’t like it.

Business Insider reported a new study. It claims many six-figure male employees ask to work fewer hours.

Men without degrees (and fewer job prospects) opt to stay out of the job market. It means more men have leaned into a softer life.

If a man has a partner or splits his bills, he will work less.

Women being more “entitled” actually benefits men. And if more males stopped fighting against women’s requests, more men could have a softer life.

And, yes, more sex. Happy ladies are horny ladies.

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This post was previously published on medium.com.

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