Why No One Stays

Instead of blaming the people who have distanced themselves from you, attributing to them characteristics of insensitivity, coldness, lack of compassion, check if you are a sufficiently pleasant person for people to want to be around you, not out of protocol obligations, but out of genuine affinity.

Have the courage to look at yourself and face yourself, instead of blaming the other, playing the victim.

When a person has good energy, is pleasant, interesting, loving, has light, good humor, everyone wants to have them around and then it is they who will choose who they want or do not want around based on relational dignity.

But options will not be lacking, because the person emanates light! Who doesn’t want people of light around? Everyone wants people with good energy around!! That person who just sitting in silence next to you makes your day much better.

When a person is, for example, despotic, invasive, authoritarian, controlling, little perceptive, narcissistic, nobody can stand to be around, except for oppression or need, which implies compulsory coexistence.

What often happens is that the person’s self-perception is so low that they don’t see that they themselves created this for them, so they prefer to play the victim instead of perceiving themselves in the relational mirrors they judge.

It’s as absurd as a slave owner lamenting that the slaves freed themselves and no longer wanted to know about him.

Of course, it’s a matter of self-love, unless the slave is masochistic and wants to cultivate indignity.

Want to attract interesting people to your life? Meditate! Change your energy, express your best, radiate joy, love, light, good humor.

Certainly, if you are in a good vibration, there will be no shortage of interesting people wanting to get close to you, not out of interest or social protocols, but out of genuine affection.

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This post was previously published on medium.com.

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