About maymay

Formerly a free software programmer “by day” and a sexual freedom advocate “by night,” Maymay has been an outspoken member of kinky, queer communities since 2002. Now a full-time activist, writer, and public speaker, he frequently examines cultural and political issues ranging from censorship to community building and beyond on his blog at maybemaimed.com. He thrives in harsh environments, such as on Twitter, where he's @maymaym.

How an Outdated View of Masculinity Ignores the Needs of All Men

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Men’s submission to women is the romantic norm, says kink activist Maymay. But it doesn’t have to be ordinary or unfulfilling.