A Stay-At-Home Dad Spills

I honestly don’t remember exactly how Dave and I met but we’ve been having coffee, communicating on email and staying in close touch since before he became a dad of twins. He’s a remarkable writer and an even more remarkable dad and man.


Dave’s Essays:

The Happy Hour Miscarriage in Paradise

Dreams and Visions: On Being a Man 

The Sound of Bullfrogs


More video profiles:

My Friend Joe

Sheffield: fatherhood, photography, and surfing

Kent George: Fight or Flight

Michael Kamber: Shooting the Truth




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About Tom Matlack

Tom Matlack is the co-founder of The Good Men Project. He has a 18-year-old daughter and 16- and 7-year-old sons. His wife, Elena, is the love of his life. Follow him on Twitter @TMatlack.


  1. Great video! I can’t help but be envious of him! Even though not ‘Bringing home the bacon’ would probably hurt my ‘Male ego” (Im from a different generation where that was expected) I can’t help but envy those men fortunate enough to be there for their children.

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  3. I’d like to talk with Dave and perhaps get some resources that can help people understand that a father can be a great caretaker. I was a stay at home dad since I was out of work for awhile. My wife divorced me and now I can only see my son every other weekend. I know it is not good for my son, and I will have a long legal battle to get more time with him. The courts are extremely biased.


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