
I have been there before, asking for a woman’s number is NOT EASY!
This is one of the most daunting tasks for an average guy.
You meet a beautiful lady, you like her, whether she initiates the conversations or you did, it doesn’t matter, then you decide to follow it up, at least to ensure you have access to her again, then comes the confusion.
How do I ask for her phone number?
What if she says NO?
How would I handle the aftermath embarrassment or damage to my pride?
Does that sound familiar?
Well what if i told you that there’s a way to ask for a woman’s number that WORKS more often that NOT?
Yes, you read that correctly!
This method hardly fails, trust me! I’m not making vain promises.
It’s a method I have tried many times and I’m going to show you 2 or 3 videos of how it works.
Without holding anything back I will be sharing the weapon to overcome the nerve wrecking challenge of asking for ANY woman phone number.
Yeah! The method is… Humor
Humor means amusement or being funny or comical.
What? it sounds simple right?
Well…if it’s as simple as it sounds, if not, then why are many men still struggling to overcome the challenges of collecting women’s numbers?
The reason is there are guidelines for using the technique.
Here, i’m going to show you 3 top guidelines to follow, with video demonstrations on how to collect any woman’s phone number:
1. Open the Floor with a Playful Banter:
It may be something that challenges or intrigues her a little, If she laughs it shows you’re really on track. You don’t have to overly worry about what the banter should be about and if she does not laugh, just keep your cool.
You can say something like:
“Why are you so charming? I learned that angels don’t walk in broad daylight.”
Watch the video below for practical demonstration.
https://youtube.com/shorts/PqUH8ziUvts?si=jxOxqSb_SeNqOtnt
2. Use Creative Compliments
This means you massage her ego with a sweet compliment and add your request to it. Like you say something nice about her and you ask for her number, all in the same sentence. For example:
“It’s been a nice time with you, and meeting you has been the highlight of my day, I will like to have some more, put your number here”
Please! ensure you don’t lie about the compliment you’re going to give. You must be sincere.
Watch the demonstration here:
3. Turn The Asking Into Joke
This technique is similar to the one above. Just that instead of adding your request to a genuine and sincere compliment you add it into a joke. For example:
“Okay, it’s been a nice time with you, since fun to talk to, let’s do it again, kindly put your number here”
Check out the demonstration:
https://youtube.com/shorts/oN1gL8jTU2w?si=vQjNcXPzjayb5UFU
In Conclusion
Using humor while approaching women or making a request no doubt is perfect, you must know the jokes being used aren’t meant to cajole women. It’s just meant to soften the ground for you.
Also make sure you’re sincere in your compliments and jokes. If you don’t mean it, don’t say it! Never play with someone else’s feelings.
Alongside the techniques, it’s also important for you to be confident. Confidence, authenticity and humor when combined work like magic.
Remember, it takes less number of facial muscles to smile and a good laugh can pave a perfect route to a woman’s heart, hence her phone number.
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N.B the credits of the videos in this post goes to @Ayokiss via YouTube. Kindly follow him and watch his videos.
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