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For so many of us kissing is a prelude, something we do that leads to something else. And for some people, it’s something they have to do to get to the next step.
Conscious Kissing is its own incredible moment of being. There is nothing else other than the delicious sensation, the feeling, the taste of our mouths.
Kissing is one of the most intimate acts we can share with a partner, in fact, there are times when kissing is more intimate than sex. Kissing brings us closer together than anything. Because kissing is so intimate, it also expresses our emotional state.
Kissing is the sharing of our essence. In the exchange of fluids and breath, we mix ourselves with our lovers.
Our kiss is communication. As well as being arousing it’s a journey we take our partners and ourselves on. In the delicate touch of lips and tongues, we tell where we are. Our intention, our love, and our desire are communicated in the moment.
We can bring ourselves into a presence during our kiss. It’s not just a prelude to sex, rather a world of sensation and emotion on its own. When we’re present during a kiss it has no need to go anywhere, be anything other than the beautiful connection it is.
We can ride the waves of gentleness and fire, kissing slow and soft, hard and deep and urgent. Our mouths become the expression of all that is within us at that moment. My hand in your hair pulling you to me as I share my fire with you. My hands-on your face surrounding you, enclosing us in connection.
Kissing is playing, celebrating our joy in each other.
Kissing is sex and lovemaking on its own. We get lost in the taste, in the sensation. My whole body, my whole being, my heart is expressed in my kiss. It’s a dance of energy as we move in and out and around each other. It’s the song of our intimacy in our sighs and our moans. And it’s the portal to lovemaking divine in the sacred element of our kiss.
There are reflexology points on the tongue.
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I'm a Conscious Sexuality Practitioner in South Africa. I work with men, women, and couples of all orientations. I offer a range of lessons, workshops, and retreats. I present a weekly online radio show, SexTalk on cliffcentral.com.
Conscious Kissing is its own incredible moment of being. There is nothing else other than the delicious sensation, the feeling, the taste of our mouths.
