
Even professionals feel the need to show up strong.
Sometimes this strength is forced, because we lack strength on the inside.
When we are not congruent…
When we do not feel as strong on the inside as we appear on the outside…
The incongruence shows up anyway.
Have you ever talked to someone who spoke and expressed strength, but what they said didn’t match their body language?
Did you ever feel that a person was just trying to speak strength?
That’s incongruence.
True confidence and strength never need to be expressed.
People feel it.
I can help you feel confidence, so you do not need to try to display confidence.
When you feel confidence, it shows up anyway.
You need to do nothing differently.
I struggled with confidence for years, and always felt like a fraud.
Now I feel confidence inside, and I just need to show up.
When you show up strong, the world responds favorably to your presence.
It takes less effort to attract what you seek.
It’s all available to you too.
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This post was previously published on Mike Kitko.
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