6 Light Year Scarce Behaviors in Men that Women Should Appreciate

When men are scarce, good men are even harder to find — Daniel J. Kruger

Truly! Good men or even women are hard to find. The lie there is that men are scarce.

No, they are not.

You can get any man to fall for you if you play your cards right. But it is quite hard to get men with certain behaviors.

There is a possibility that men with these behaviors are light years ahead of the others, and you might have one right now and just don’t appreciate him as much.

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If any of this behavior seems normal to you as a woman. Then you have a great man, and it’s high time you take him more important. That’s a good man right there.

You might not know it. But men do.

Men would never tell you about the stories they hear or experiences they get to see from others.

But most men look at some of their friends in relationships as halfwits with thoughts like; “Wow! This guy is just such a loverboy, I wouldn’t do that” and in other worse situations, they know themselves that they are such gentlemen to their women.

Women also have their own scarce behaviors. But these are the scarce behaviors in men that women should appreciate;

Men who smoke a huge wrap of blunt

You could smoke a blunt or sharpen it. Either way, you will create heat.

It takes more than just the mouth, diphthongs, and lips to be truthful, even in a relationship.

Men who are blunt with words to their women are rare to find. Bypassing the effects of love is not an easy thing to do.

Most men in love would say their opinion on issues, but they might not be 100% truthful, because they might not want to hurt their woman.

So if you have a man who tells you how it is, no matter what he feels, that’s a good man. Hold on tight.

Men who make out time from no time

When I think of all the men I know. There is always one thing buried deep in them.

Or should I say all the men I know?

Some drink, womanize, or smoke. Yes! Others do drugs. There are so many other boys’ stuff men do.

Most men would not trade the time for that habit for their woman. Even worse, some men would never trade that time for their wives.

If you have a man who has traded such fun times to be with you. Oh! He definitely loves you.

I do not mean a regular boys’ night. But the time to do what he is fetish about. It might be yoga, programming, or even writing.

If he has ever ditched it a couple of times just to be with you. Appreciate him. Men take pride in things like that. Even more, men like that are scarce.

Men who slam the bro-code

The rickety old sacred oath. No one dares break it.

There is no book that reads the boy/men code handed to all men. But I could tell you for sure that every man has more than three editions of the boy’s code in their mind.

It’s subconscious. They just know what to do with it.

Now, if you have a man who slams some of those rules because they are in love with you. That’s a man with scarce behavior. No matter how in love a man might be.

The boy’s code is his only remaining oath to himself. If he breaks it for you. Know that you are more than just special to him.

Men who take more than 100%

We all know the 50–50 thing is all a lie. Every woman deserves and wants to be spoilt badly.

Also, every man wants to provide in one way or the other. But when you have a man who gives more than 100% in financial support. Know that he is rare.

If you are the kind of woman that wouldn’t allow your man such privileges of footing the bills all the time.

Then he might as well cherish such a notion and take advantage of it till the extent that he completely vanishes in the aspect of financial care.

Any man who still offers to do it all is a rare gem.

Men who are crazy supporters

Behind every successful man is a strong and brave woman. But behind every successful woman is a much crazier individual.

A man who goes against all odds to support his woman through thick and thin and ensures she achieves all she wants.

If this feels normal to you. You might never know what it feels like to have a man who doesn’t support your dreams so much.

If your man doesn’t give care in the world about what people say when he flies your flag. He has a behavior that is rare in many men.

Only a few women have the golden opportunity of meeting such men.

Men who reciprocate with effectiveness

It is okay to fall in love completely and become one with another. But being in a one-sided relationship is the worst situation anyone could be.

At the start of every relationship, most men are the ones who give their all. Through all the dates and memorable times, they are super engrossed in the woman.

But once she starts to show some love and a level of appreciation for them, they become a little careless with love.

It extends to some marriages; the wives are the ones expressing more love than the husband.

If your man still shows you the same level of love as you do him. He’s got a scarce behavior. Cherish it.

It doesn’t mean there are no more good men in the world. It is just a reminder to hold on to your man. That man you call rubbish or too meek is golden for some other women.

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Thank you so much for reading my article today. My gratitude towards you knows no bound. I will be publishing another article very soon.

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This post was previously published on medium.com.

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