6 Tips to Improve Your Attractiveness

Want to start feeling better about yourself? Want to stop feeling like every guy has it better than you do?

Want to stop paying $5.99 for photos of girls online because you can’t meet any in real life?

Well, you’ve come to the right place because I’ve got 6 tips for you that will help you transform into the kind of man you want to be.

It’s time to get your shit together.

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First and foremost — don’t be a broke loser.

Let’s get this out of the way, shall we?

Money is power.

I’ve watched countless interviews where women will claim they’ll be with men who make little to no money and that they’re fine with being the breadwinners.

I call bullshit.

No woman will be happy with a guy she has to provide for. No woman will find you attractive if you can’t take her out to dinner. No woman will respect you if you’re broke.

If you want to improve your overall appeal, you need to have money.

Before you comment about how messed up it is that all women want is money and how it’s materialistic or how women are gold diggers, take a step back and understand what I’m saying — most traditional women who want to have a family won’t go for men who can’t provide for them.

Now if you’re not going for a traditional woman, you’re probably going the more modern route. Modern women won’t date down; they all want a guy who is either at their level or making more than them.

So regardless of who your type is, money is an asset that you need to have, and it’s something that will not only raise your attractiveness but it’ll also make your life a hell of a lot easier.

If you’re not making money, you’re probably not doing anything productive with your life; therefore, it decreases your attractiveness; it’s as simple as that.

What you can do:
Make money.

I’m not telling you that you need to become a multimillionaire to get a girl, but if you want to improve in general, having a good-paying job, or learning how to make money on your own, will make you more attractive overall.

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Prioritize your presentation.

Taking care of yourself is the easiest way to improve your attractiveness.

First and foremost, make sure your personal hygiene is magnificent. It’s free to shower, and it costs a few dollars to buy deodorant, and if you want to splurge, a good cologne is never a bad idea.

Secondly, pay attention to what you’re putting in your body and on your body.

Eating healthily will help you look good and keep your body in shape.

Taking a few extra minutes each morning to put on something nice rather than throwing on random and mismatched clothing will help you look better.

Presentation is key. If you want women to pay attention to you, take care of yourself internally and externally.

What you can do:
Wake up 15–20 minutes earlier every morning to put yourself together.

Look at yourself in the mirror every morning and ask yourself, “If I saw myself walk into a room, would I be impressed with myself or embarrassed?”

Better yet, ask yourself, “If I were a woman, would I sleep with myself?”

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Implement this routine into your life.

One word: Skincare.

Most guys don’t have a skincare routine. Most guys laugh at women who spend hundreds of dollars on skincare products but walk around with acne all over their faces and clogged pores.

You don’t need a 12-step routine — you need a cleanser, moisturizer, and an SPF if you’re going to be in the sun all day.

Additionally, if you’re someone with acne on your body, address it. You can be a stud, and you will still gross out women if your back is covered in acne.

This is a sign of poor hygiene habits and poor gut health, and a lot of times, it just means you stay in sweaty clothing for extended periods of time.

What you can do:
Implement a simple skincare routine that you can follow every morning and night. Buy two cleansers; keep one in the shower and one on the counter.

Pro tip: If you struggle with acne on your body, pay attention to your diet.

Additionally, try going to the sauna a few times per week because, when used correctly, saunas can improve your skin, reduce blemishes, and clear your pores.

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Stop being skinny and stop being fat. Do this instead.

Going to the gym is one of the easiest ways to either increase your attractiveness or become attractive in general.

Going to the gym changes everything about you. Your body, your face, your confidence level, your testosterone level — you name it.

On top of that, making the gym a consistent habit in your daily life will speak volumes as to the kind of person that you are. Being in great shape says you work hard because you can’t buy a good physique.

I can’t think of a single attractive woman who wouldn’t go for a man who exercises and takes care of himself physically over the one who doesn’t.

What you can do:
If you’re scrawny and skinny, start eating more protein and make working out a priority.

If you’re overweight, start addressing your diet and make working out a priority.

Get it in daily. Make the gym a nonnegotiable — because at the end of the day, this is your health we’re talking about.

You’ve got one body to live in for the rest of your life; stop treating it like garbage.

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Have a hobby.

Having a hobby indicates that you’re confident in something, which alone is extremely attractive, but outside of that, men need to have something to expend their energy on outside of going to the gym.

Take up an activity that allows you to completely unplug from everything going on around you.

This should be something you look forward to doing, whether it be daily, weekly, or even bi-weekly.

For example, maybe you’re an athletic guy who goes to the gym consistently but looking to do something else athletic on the side — try playing pickleball with your buddies once a week. Or soccer, boxing, or basketball.

Maybe you have an extremely hectic lifestyle and want something that will help you unplug completely — try going on fishing trips.

Whatever it is, it needs to take you out of your daily routine and allow you to feel good about yourself and your life.

What you can do:
What’s something you used to love doing but haven’t for no particular reason at all?

Maybe you played sports in high school, but now you feel like you don’t have the time — but when you think back on those days on the basketball court, or the football field, you looooved it.

What’s stopping you from doing that again? If you have time to scroll through your phone for hours, you definitely have time to go shoot some hoops or throw around a football for a few hours per week to destress and unplug.

Live a little — do something you used to love — or better yet, do something younger you always wanted to do.

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Do this every night before bed for 10–15 minutes.

Read.

There’s nothing more attractive than a man who can stimulate your mind and carry a good-ass conversation.

Not only will reading help you improve the quality of your communication, but it’s just a great way to learn and educate yourself.

Reading fiction books, at the very minimum, gives you something to talk about and can help you expand your vocabulary.

Reading non-fiction, though, that’s the golden ticket right there. Get your hands on everything you find interesting — or even things you don’t find interesting. Why not learn about something new?

I never thought I’d be interested in self-help books, but now they’re my go-to’s, and I could read them all day because they help me want to become a better me.

My boyfriend reads Marcus Aurelius every night, and I’d argue that’s why he’s so stoic and disciplined.

What you can do:
The simplest thing you can do is buy yourself an alarm clock (if that’s your reasoning behind keeping your phone by the bed at night) and then keep your phone in the other room and read for 10–15 minutes per night instead of scrolling or late-night texting.

You’d be surprised by how quickly time flies, and before you know it, you’ll be looking for your next read.

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To wrap things up…

In order to become more attractive as quickly as you possibly can, start implementing all 6 of the following tips:

Get off your butt and start making money
Prioritize the way you present yourself to the world
Implement a skincare routine
Start working out consistently
Get a hobby and get good at it
Read and educate yourself

There’s no better feeling than waking up and knowing you’re on a journey that will help you become the best version of yourself, so stop wasting your time complaining about how you’re not as good-looking or as rich as the other guys out there, and start taking action.

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This post was previously published on medium.com.

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