Anthony Carter shatters the idea that love just happens – here he shows us how it’s done.
Why People Prefer Misery Over Being Happy
People choose misery over being happy for some pretty predictable reasons.
People choose misery over being happy for some pretty predictable reasons.
The #1 Reason Marriages Become Sexless (And What to Do About It)
The secret to a great relationship and mind-blowing, soul-shaking sex is difficult conversations.
The secret to a great relationship and mind-blowing, soul-shaking sex is difficult conversations.
My Long Overdue Love Letter to Bell Hooks
She provided and continues to provide ongoing support as to what people can do to love and reach one another.
She provided and continues to provide ongoing support as to what people can do to love and reach one another.
What Black Lightning Can Teach Us About Love
If this were just another show with a superhero punching people in the face it could be easily dismissed.
If this were just another show with a superhero punching people in the face it could be easily dismissed.
Why Immigration Matters to the LGBTQ Community
I was unaware of the intersection of fear and anxiety among "undocumented " persons and how similar it is to being in the closet. I had the opportunity to interview and make a very short video of one brave person's story.
I was unaware of the intersection of fear and anxiety among “undocumented ” persons and how similar it is to being in the closet. I had the opportunity to interview and make a very short video of one brave person’s story.
Psyche Suicide
Let's not make a deal.
Let’s not make a deal.
Trayvon Martin Should Still Be Alive
How do we protect young black men and keep them from being objects of suspicion and targets?
How do we protect young black men and keep them from being objects of suspicion and targets?
How to Eliminate Internalized Homophobia in Four Easy Steps
As I am consistently approached to offer my written opinions and well thought out world views, my desire to be seen and heard and known begins to shrink.
As I am consistently approached to offer my written opinions and well thought out world views, my desire to be seen and heard and known begins to shrink.
I Want to Be Evil…My Tribute to Eartha Kitt
My love affair with the fantabuolus Eartha and the only cat woman that mattered began early.
My love affair with the fantabuolus Eartha and the only cat woman that mattered began early.
My Diabolical Plan to Defeat Ageism in the Gay Community
I remind myself and others that there are many folks who began life's journey with me who decided to check out for whatever the reason some time ago.
I remind myself and others that there are many folks who began life’s journey with me who decided to check out for whatever the reason some time ago.
Why Limiting Imagination is Racism’s Most Effective Tool
We must teach that reality and its creation is an individual's choice and not predetermined nor beyond being critically examined.
We must teach that reality and its creation is an individual’s choice and not predetermined nor beyond being critically examined.
Is Racism Taught Through Love
Racism is a learned way of thinking and is not endemic to the culture or a person. It is taught to us by those we love and trust to know better.
Racism is a learned way of thinking and is not endemic to the culture or a person. It is taught to us by those we love and trust to know better.
Twenty Dead…But Not Forgotten
We have become too desensitized to the deaths of those in our community. Here is a list so that we never forget and continue to fight.
We have become too desensitized to the deaths of those in our community. Here is a list so that we never forget and continue to fight.
Why Black Men Live With The Threat of 9-11 Daily
Young black males have never been safe in this country. A black male who is brilliant, talented or gay is even more of a target.
Young black males have never been safe in this country. A black male who is brilliant, talented or gay is even more of a target.
The Great Good-Bad Black Male Hoax
As I leave my home daily to go to work, I often assume that my tie and a smart pair of glasses will shield me from abuse and homicide.
As I leave my home daily to go to work, I often assume that my tie and a smart pair of glasses will shield me from abuse and homicide.