In a life where I had to face total loss of control and influence over who got to be in my son’s and ex-wife’s lives, I was gifted a relationship where I don’t have to worry about whether they will be safe.
Marriage & Commitment
Why Surviving A Wife’s Infidelity Is So Hard
Infidelity changes everything.
Infidelity changes everything.
Guys— ‘Helping’ Around the House Isn’t Required
Ending the Chore Wars once and for all.
Ending the Chore Wars once and for all.
The Worst Thing Wives Do
Long before I was accidentally (but egregiously) a shitty husband, I was just a young guy trying to figure things out.
Long before I was accidentally (but egregiously) a shitty husband, I was just a young guy trying to figure things out.
Hope Changes Everything
Because no one ever handed out the How to Deal with Major Life Trauma manual.
Because no one ever handed out the How to Deal with Major Life Trauma manual.
Sexual Taboo: The Meaning and Significance of a Man ‘Taking Care of Himself’
Is he bored or desiring someone else?
— I recently received an email from a woman who was very concerned about her partner’s masturbation habits. She explained that they have been together just under a year, and that he would sneak out of the bedroom at night, while he thought she was asleep, and masturbate in another room. She told me of…
My Story Is Your Story (Even When It’s Not)
Marriages break because neglectful spouses devolve---from loved one, to roommate, to stranger you want to face-punt.
Marriages break because neglectful spouses devolve—from loved one, to roommate, to stranger you want to face-punt.
How to Be Married or Be Freed
What to do when we feel "trapped" in love.
What to do when we feel “trapped” in love.
You Are Biased and Selfish Without Realizing It
It doesn't "jive" because we'd just "assume" do it the wrong way.
It doesn’t “jive” because we’d just “assume” do it the wrong way.
What’s the Secret to a Long and Happy Marriage?
In a world that is full of connection but loneliness, you can both put the phone down for a while and be present with each other.
In a world that is full of connection but loneliness, you can both put the phone down for a while and be present with each other.
Structural Failure
Amin Ahmad’s excerpt from The Good Men Project anthology. “We take our usual seats at the coffee shop, by the plate glass window. My hands are shaking so badly that I scald myself. ‘What’s going on, man?’ Peter looks at me over the rim of his coffee cup.”
I Won’t Be Your Ally Because You’re Probably Doing it Wrong Like Me
It’s hard to find people who know how to see the subtlety of emotional abuse for what it is.
It’s hard to find people who know how to see the subtlety of emotional abuse for what it is.
How Do You Define Success in a Marriage?
Can a successful marriage end in divorce?
Can a successful marriage end in divorce?
The Secret To Having All Areas of Your Life Work
It is all relationships.
It is all relationships.
“So If I Brought a One-Year-Old Home, Would You Be Ok With That?”
If your significant other asked you this what would you say?
If your significant other asked you this what would you say?
4 Keys to a Healthy Marriage While Building Your Business
Being successful at business but not at home means we have failed. Here are some tips to make your marriage prosper along with your business.
Being successful at business but not at home means we have failed. Here are some tips to make your marriage prosper along with your business.