Saying “no” may mean disappointing someone you love and care about. But saying “yes” and not meaning it leads to feeling resentful and manipulated.
Marriage & Commitment
The 5 Stages of Marriage
How to accurately read your love map.
How to accurately read your love map.
How To Overcome Marital Infidelity and Move On With Your Life
You can move forward from the betrayal if you start with these 7 steps.
You can move forward from the betrayal if you start with these 7 steps.
The Thing Divorced Parents Fear Most
Here's the thing about control.
Here’s the thing about control.
Going to the Heart of Emotional Conflict
If you’re upset with your spouse, talk to your self before you talk to them.
If you’re upset with your spouse, talk to your self before you talk to them.
Sometimes It’s Not About You
This is something my wife will say to me a lot.
This is something my wife will say to me a lot.
Complaining About Your Marriage Is the Wrong Way to Go
Complaining Is easy. Taking action is hard.
Complaining Is easy. Taking action is hard.
How Colorblindness Can Destroy Your Marriage
What’s more damaging to relationships: Inventing problems that don’t actually exist, or denying the existence of those that do?
What’s more damaging to relationships: Inventing problems that don’t actually exist, or denying the existence of those that do?
Ending the Blame Game: Thoughts on No-Fault Divorce
A marriage will only work if that is what both parties want.
A marriage will only work if that is what both parties want.
The Truth Is What We Save From the Fire
"Psychologists say most people devote more energy to avoiding bad feelings than chasing good ones. I believe them."
“Psychologists say most people devote more energy to avoiding bad feelings than chasing good ones.
I believe them.”
What Does Money Mean to You?
How you answer this question is really important for your marriage.
How you answer this question is really important for your marriage.
I’m Not Sure I Have the Energy for Another Child
Make sure you are being truthful with your spouse.
Make sure you are being truthful with your spouse.
‘I Love You, But I’m Not In Love With You.’ What Does It Mean?
How to save your marriage before it’s too late.
How to save your marriage before it’s too late.
Having the Same Goals Won’t Save Your Relationship
Going the same direction doesn't mean you'll arrive together.
Going the same direction doesn’t mean you’ll arrive together.
Resentment—the Silent Relationship Killer
Resentment works on the foundation of a relationship much like termites work on a house.
Resentment works on the foundation of a relationship much like termites work on a house.
The Best Way to Avoid an Unhappy Marriage – Talk About Money
— Money and politics are subjects we’re not supposed to talk about, right? But if you want to avoid an unhappy marriage, you have to talk about money. I realize that’s a bold statement. Numerous studies cite the divorce rates for first marriages in American at around 50%.There has been some debate about that recently. Whatever the percentage,…