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Marriage & Commitment
A Groom’s Guide to Planning an Indian Wedding (Especially If You’re Flying In From Abroad)
— Nobody warns you about the scale. You say yes to a wedding in India, and within a week your phone is buzzing with a family group chat, a cousin has opinions about the sangeet, and someone has asked whether your side will be hosting the pre-wedding lunch. If you’re a groom based in the…
You’ve Changed, but Your Wife Doesn’t Trust It
You can’t talk someone into trusting your transformation.
You can’t talk someone into trusting your transformation.
9 Predictors of Divorce in Modern U.S. Marriages
Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling are major red flags for divorce.
Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling are major red flags for divorce.
If Divorce Is This Hard, Maybe I Should Have Stayed Married
Why wanting to go back keeps you stuck in pain.
Why wanting to go back keeps you stuck in pain.
The Groom’s Role in a Wedding: Why Showing Up Means More Than Just Saying ‘I Do’
— For generations, weddings have often been framed as the bride’s big day. The dress, the flowers, the venue, the photographs, the planning—all too often, the groom has been treated as someone who simply needs to arrive on time, put on a suit, and say the right words. But marriage is a partnership. And if…
Own Your Part Without Taking All the Blame
Being right about what happened doesn’t necessarily help you fix what’s happening.
Being right about what happened doesn’t necessarily help you fix what’s happening.
Why Men Walk Out of Couples Therapy, and What Would Bring Them Back
— He tells his wife the session was fine. What he does not say is that he spent fifty minutes in a room feeling outnumbered two to one. He keeps the harsher word, ambushed, to himself. The next appointment slides off his calendar, and eventually nobody brings it up again. This is the same man…
I Don’t Need My Husband to Be My Best Friend
I married the man. I don’t need him to fill every available position in my life.
I married the man. I don’t need him to fill every available position in my life.
How Do Kind Words Bring Love Into Married Life?
Emotion is similar to climate.
Emotion is similar to climate.
The Real Reason Married Men End Up in Dead Bedrooms, According to the Manosphere
They think they have it all figured out.
They think they have it all figured out.
Twenty Years of Marriage Has Made Us Extremely F*cking Weird
At some point, you stop trying to impress each other and start communicating in noises.
At some point, you stop trying to impress each other and start communicating in noises.
Before We Get on the Plane, I Want to Tell You What I Think Marriage Actually Is
That distinction matters more to me now than it ever has.
That distinction matters more to me now than it ever has.
5 Pieces of Sexless Marriage Advice for Men From a Man Who Has Been There (Updated)
Practical advice for men navigating a sexless marriage, focusing on communication, emotional connection, understanding, and rebuilding intimacy without blame.
Practical advice for men navigating a sexless marriage, focusing on communication, emotional connection, understanding, and rebuilding intimacy without blame.
When Getting Along in Your Marriage Isn’t Enough
You could be in the middle of a quiet divorce and not even know it.
You could be in the middle of a quiet divorce and not even know it.
When You Can’t See Your Wife Naked Anymore
Who is to blame when love dies?
Who is to blame when love dies?