Leaving the wrong relationship doesn’t mean leaving behind the habits that kept you there.
We All Said He Was Good. That Was the Problem.
He wasn’t a stranger who broke in. He was someone we all approved.
He wasn’t a stranger who broke in. He was someone we all approved.
I Thought I Was Being Kind. I Was Actually Disappearing.
What Gen X women are discovering after a lifetime of being good, helpful, and easy to love.
What Gen X women are discovering after a lifetime of being good, helpful, and easy to love.
The Difference Between Chasing and Showing Up in Love
I had clocked him too.
I had clocked him too.
When Dinner in a Woman’s Home Is Mistaken for Consent
The hosts expressed sympathy.
The hosts expressed sympathy.
At What Point Her One-Time “Yes” Becomes Forever
I looked at him.
I looked at him.
6 Signs You’ve Already Started Accepting Less in Love
It just makes less noise.
It just makes less noise.
Yes, Love Has Become a Recruitment Process
Between endless swiping and endless choice, we stopped meeting people and started evaluating them.
Between endless swiping and endless choice, we stopped meeting people and started evaluating them.
The Question He Asked Changed How I See Relationships
“What’s the right one?”
“What’s the right one?”
When I Stopped Looking for Answers in the Woman He Chose
I was doing it to understand.
I was doing it to understand.
What Good Men Don’t Do
Men often build good reputations on other men’s failures, and that’s scary!
Men often build good reputations on other men’s failures, and that’s scary!
Midlife Women Aren’t Harder to Love. They’re Harder to Fool.
After years of losing themselves in relationships, they finally know what peace is worth.
After years of losing themselves in relationships, they finally know what peace is worth.
When a Bill on a Date Comes With Strings Attached
There was a pause… longer than expected.
There was a pause… longer than expected.
What Makes Someone Worth Choosing in Love
I thought I was looking for a partner. I was learning how to recognise one.
I thought I was looking for a partner. I was learning how to recognise one.
The One You Can’t Stop Thinking About Is Not the One You Think
It was not real.
It was not real.
We’re Not Afraid of Love. We’re Afraid of the Downgrade.
Not to get drinks.
Not to get drinks.