A self-professed nation of immigrants risks no longer being an inviting place.
Do You Trust Sex With Strangers?
Listen to your instinct, that’s where trust starts
The Men Who Made Me
Teachers and friends, writers and bosses, lovers and heroes –I lovingly remember and honor the gifts you shared.
Good Lessons from a Bad Father
By being his usual, insensitive self, he showed me what kind of man not to be.
Why I Write – To Prove Myself
Sustained by a stubborn conviction that he could do it better than some of the literary “greats,” Man Shman learned that writing was simply too important to NOT do.
My On-Again, Off-Again Relationship with Shame
Sometimes I can hear the world insist there’s something essentially wrong about me.
That’s What You Get for Being So Adorable
“Just because you think I’m Elmo doesn’t mean you may tickle me.” –Man Shman
“That’s Not How We’re Gonna Do It”
An unexpected lesson on mature relationship-building from The Big Bang Theory.
Why I’d Never Get Caught Dead Not Wearing a Shirt
Man Shman: “Men are allowed to freely expose their torsos, but I can’t just show mine to anyone.”