The only people standing in the way of us honestly confronting our wrongs is ourselves.
Hoodies, Hats, and Cultural Nuance
Schools obsess over what students wear on their heads. Is it really that important?
Schools obsess over what students wear on their heads. Is it really that important?
Boys Do Cry
The mountain can be climbed, but we haven’t finished climbing it yet.
The mountain can be climbed, but we haven’t finished climbing it yet.
The Only Way Out is Through
Keep working at it. Climb the mountains. There are no cheap paths out.
Keep working at it. Climb the mountains. There are no cheap paths out.
Three Ways Male Entitlement Erases Women
From toys to clothing to #MeToo, men continue to center ourselves.
From toys to clothing to #MeToo, men continue to center ourselves.
How I Overcame the Christmas Blues
While I still struggle with my moods during this time of year, the depression and resentment aren’t as deep as they used to be.
While I still struggle with my moods during this time of year, the depression and resentment aren’t as deep as they used to be.
Why Privilege is White-Washed Supremacy
It's easy to reject White Supremacy as an extreme. But do we accept the depth of our own privilege?
It’s easy to reject White Supremacy as an extreme. But do we accept the depth of our own privilege?
Melting the Icebergs of the White Patriarchs
The thing about icebergs is, if they lose enough support, they collapse.
The thing about icebergs is, if they lose enough support, they collapse.
A Eulogy for Porn
One moment in an alleyway fossilized my perspective for decades.
One moment in an alleyway fossilized my perspective for decades.
Write for the Good Men Project!
If it's about making the world a better place, we'd love to read it.
If it’s about making the world a better place, we’d love to read it.
Four Reasons Why LaVar Ball Isn’t Giving Thanks
We should be spending less time trying to get LaVar Ball to say “thank you” and much more time trying to figure out why he won’t.
We should be spending less time trying to get LaVar Ball to say “thank you” and much more time trying to figure out why he won’t.
Venomous Snakes and Turd-Filled Candy
Comparing the fear faced by women and people of color about white men to white men's fear of terrorists and transgender people is openly dishonest.
Comparing the fear faced by women and people of color about white men to white men’s fear of terrorists and transgender people is openly dishonest.
Awakening of the Nerd
It took months for the dam of cognitive dissonance to break---to even understand that the rape scene in "Revenge of the Nerds" really is rape---but once it broke, the water flowed free.
It took months for the dam of cognitive dissonance to break, but once it broke, the water flowed free.
Halloween Candy and Socialism
It took seeing the world from the other side to realize how selfish I was being in my generosity.
It took seeing the world from the other side to realize how selfish I was being in my generosity.
Growing Beyond the White Savior
Paul Hartzer reflects on hand gestures, respect, and authentically bridging racial gaps.
Paul Hartzer reflects on hand gestures, respect, and authentically bridging racial gaps.
Lucy’s Football ‘Joke’ and the Problem of Bullying
Let’s review the narrative we’re giving our youth about bullying.
Let’s review the narrative we’re giving our youth about bullying.