8 Everyday Things Women Find Undeniably Seductive In Men

1. Your Boxers:

Yes, you read that absolutely correctly.

At the onset of April, I decided to order some boxers for myself, as they’re airy, funky, and soooo comfy. After mid-March, summer starts in India, so I was just being prepared.

Now, whenever you order something for yourself, it should be scanned by your girlfriend; that’s the unsaid rule. Whether you want to order it or not is up to you, but this scanning should be done. So I did the same, and my gf says, “What cartoonish shorts are you ordering? You’re not a kid anymore.”

But I know how they feel and how vital they are in the summer. I ordered them and sent a first selfie to her, of course.

Her reactions were completely opposite, as the first words that came out of her mouth were seksy and cute.

Well, I just said and told her and accepted her cute comments on my shorts. Man, that was a good day. And after that day I keep sending selfies in those boxers almost every day, as she legit loves them and finds them hot.

So flaunt your boxers, women absolutely love them.

2. Your Morning Voice:

Now this is too basic, yet absolutely seductive.

Whenever I get a chance to call my girl in the morning, I never let that go, as it really makes her go crazy, and she finds it extremely irresistibly hot. Your morning voice is unpolished, so it comes across as genuine and relaxed. Both are top-tier necessities for women to find men irresistible.

So, of course, as a proud bf, I do call her every morning just to make her miss me more.

3. Your Watch:

It looks sexy and rich and gives you purely classy vibes.

It also tells one thing about you: that you value the other person’s time and wish to be punctual in order to show respect to your counterpart.

When you wear a nice watch, I said nice and not expensive, it shows that you’ve put some effort into yourself. You took some time to choose that watch, its dial, belt, and design. Also, watches naturally draw attention to the hands and forearms, which many women find appealing.

So don’t leave your hand naked; let it wear something elegant and be eye candy to others.

4. Your Unbuttoned Shirt:

It was a Saturday evening; my girlfriend and I were sitting in a garden having a good and chilled conversation.

It was a bit hot that day, so I took a button off and continued. Throughout the conversation I saw my girl looking at my naked chest, as I had opened that button quite a few times. I didn’t say anything, as I was feeling proud of myself for putting in those hours and sweating in the gym. Well, it finally paid off.

After we went home, we always talked before we went to sleep to check up on each other by asking how their day went. At that time, Omkar said that your chest was looking drop-dead sexy when we were in the garden. I couldn’t stop myself from looking at it, which I knew, of course.

Now I do that purposely, as why the hell would I leave such a chance of not making her feel attracted to me when she can’t act on it just to tease her?

5. Your Texts:

Now you might think that good morning or good night texts are cliché, but let me warn you, they’re not. When you text her both, it shows that the first thought that comes to my mind after waking up and before going to sleep is about her, and that makes her feel special. So don’t ignore them by citing them as clichéd.

The other texts are;

• Did you reach home safely?
• In the middle of the day, I’m thinking about you, and I miss you. Guaranteed butterflies in her stomach. And yes, it should be genuine and not just for the sake of saying it.
• What you had for lunch? or just asking about her lunch overall.
• Before sleeping, How was your day? One of the best messages you can send her.
• I’ve have a surprise for you. Sned this message atleast 2–3 days before the surprise let her be excited a bit.
• We’re going to this cafe (or garden or whereever you wanna take her) this weekend.
• I can’t wait to see you.
• Guess what happened today? This shows that you’re excited to tell her things and she’s the one that you want to share things with. Prioritization is what this text shows.
• Your eyes are making me melt or you look stunning today. She already melted trust me.

These all should be genuine and from the bottom of your heart. Women instantly get to know if you’re lying and saying things just for the sake of it.

6. Your Broad Shoulders & Back:

Whatever we do together, whether it’s a ride on the bike or a kiss or clicking pictures and whatnot, she just doesn’t leave a chance to not feel my shoulders. Well back as well, but mainly shoulders.

Building broad shoulders and a strong back usually requires consistent exercise, good nutrition, and discipline. Those habits themselves can be attractive. Some women report associating a broad upper body with feeling physically protected or secure in a partner.

So clock those hours in the gym and sculpt your body, as it keeps you fit, and when she roams her hands on your bare naked body, well, that’s the real reward, don’t you think?

7. Your Focus:

It was a Friday, and my parents were out, so I invited her to my house for a coffee and to binge-watch The Office. Since we are both into teaching, we have a lot of time to spend with each other. Touchwood.

Yeah, she hasn’t watched that fucking godlike series yet. Can you imagine? But yeah, she’s loving it too, so a green flag indeed.

As I was whisking the coffee and making it frothy with laser-sharp focus, she kept looking at me, and when we sat down to relish it, the first thing she said was, “Omkar, the way you were so focused while making coffee, I kind of found that a bit arousing.” I was a bit taken aback; I mean, I was just making coffee, and that’s it.

What I think is that when a person is fully engaged in meaningful work, they often come across as driven and ambitious. Having goals and pursuing them can be appealing.

8. Your Messy Hair:

Whenever I send my selfie after I take a shower with my messy hair, my girlfriend’s standard reply is, “I want to play with that messy hair of yours and set it like I want.”

If you set your hair then she won’t be able to set them as there’s nothing to set so leave them messy purposely. Why the hell on earth would you leave a chance like this and if my girlfriend is setting my hair with her own hands them damnnn I would never set them in the entire life.

Well now I know being messy has its own perks.

Thank you for reading.

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