My father said the n-word when I was young. Often. Casually, and sometimes in anger.
My father was not a terrible person. He was a liberal Christian minister. He did good works for his community, and he did extensive missionary work in Liberia, a country whose modern culture was built by freed slaves.
The common thing to say here is that he was a product of his times. He grew up in a country where school segregation was still legal. He became in adult in a country where it was still legal to ban whites from marrying blacks. When I was young, he laughed with the country at Archie Bunker, an unapologetic bigot.
Thatās how we usually excuse wrong behavior: āHe was a product of his times.ā
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In 1776, Thomas Jefferson wrote that āall men are created equal,ā in perhaps the single most important document in our nationās history. Those words were not enough to end slavery, nor to give women the vote; those equalities would have to wait decades. In 1776, all white men were created equal.
In 1785, when arguing that slaves from Africa āare inferior in the faculties of reason and imagination,ā Thomas Jefferson wrote that āit is not against experience to suppose, that different species of the same genus, or varieties of the same species, may possess different qualifications.ā
This is not āall men are created equal.ā This is also two years before he apparently started a sexual relationship with Sally Hemings, his slave, then 14 years old. A sexual relationship between a 44-year-old man and a 14-year-old girl that he not only believes he owns, but who belongs to a race he sees as āinferior in the faculties of reason and imagination,ā can only be described in one word: Rape.
The common thing to say here is that he was a product of his times.
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The common thing to say here is that she was a product of her times.
In 1943, at age 21, Sophia Magdalena Scholl, born and raised in the same Germany as Junge, was beheaded by the Nazis for treason. As part of White Rose, she had been publishing pamphlets against the Nazis.
Her last words: āHow can we expect righteousness to prevail when there is hardly anyone willing to give himself up individually to a righteous cause? Such a fine, sunny day, and I have to go, but what does my death matter, if through us, thousands of people are awakened and stirred to action?ā
Sophie Scholl was a product of her times, too. And yet, unlike Junge, she stood up against the barbarism.
Years later, Junge went past Schollās memorial plaque and realized they were the same age, and that Scholl had been put to death the same time Junge had started to work for Hitler. Junge wrote: āAnd at that moment I actually sensed that it was no excuse to be young, and that it would have been possible to find things out.ā
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John McCain is being remembered now as a great statesperson. He reached across the aisle, he took his roles as Senator and as former Vietnam War POW with gravitas and humility, he represented all that was wonderful in the Republican Party.
He also fought against the Federal recognition of Martin Luther King Day, he joked about the devastation of war, and he frequently used a particular racist slur against Southeast Asians.
The common thing to say here isā¦
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This country would not be what it is without the contributions of Thomas Jefferson: Both good and bad. He was one of the greatest intellectual minds this country has ever had, and when he turned that mind to the goal of liberty, he helped inspire white men to rise up against the British crown.
But when he turned that mind to the issue of slavery, he added to the barbarism. To be clear: Jefferson wasnāt openly opposed to abolition. His argument was, if anything, even more grim: He wanted the free slaves to be expelled from the country. āWhen freed, he is to be removed beyond the reach of mixture.ā
When we say someone was a product of their times, we are addressing our own cognitive dissonance at the realization that our heroes have done and said some terrible things. Even in Jeffersonās era, there were people capable of seeing Africans as humans, having the same intellectual capacities as Europeans. There were white men capable of not having sex with teenage slaves.
Jefferson could have known better. He should have known better. Perhaps it was more difficult for him to come to that awareness as someone today, but āa product of his timesā is no excuse.
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Three of the four people who died during the second march from Selma to Montgomery in 1965 were white. They knew better. They had the same access to news that my father did.
One of the most iconic photos of the Woolworth Sit Ins shows two white students sitting with a black student while all three have food dumped on their heads. The two white students knew better. They had the same access to news that my father did.
Our environment, our culture, our upbringing: These things shape us, they inform us, but they do not force our actions. Our actions are our own responsibility.
John McCainās torture at the hands of the Viet Cong did not justify his racism. It might have helped explain it, but nothing could ever justify it.
Great people can do terrible things and have terrible beliefs. It is up to each of us to rise above the immoralities of our era.
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