Did you have a special bond with a man?
And despite his recent behavior, you know he felt it too?
Well, I think a relationship that had a special connection is worth saving. And the good news is that I might have a solution to reignite your relationship with your former partner.
Regardless of what a man may say, he desires to regain the special connection.
However, when he is attempting to move forward, he will not act upon those emotions.
Here’s what I’ve noticed about this situation…
A man who is resistant to a relationship with you thinks that the last chapter has already been written.
He sees the story of your relationship as having come to a close, with the final page of the last chapter already written.
To win him back, you must alter his mental perception.
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Here’s the issue I perceive with men.
The issue with men, in my perspective, is that we approach romantic relationships with our intellect. As a result, the notion of “logic” hinders our ability to rekindle a relationship with an ex.
Logic tells him he tried it and things didn’t work out.
To achieve success, you need to bypass his logical thinking and directly connect with his emotions.
You need to directly tap into his emotional desires.
This involves tapping into a deeper understanding that is often suppressed by logical and conscious thinking.
You aim to rekindle the narrative of your relationship.
Your task is to alter the way he views the relationship within his mind.
This opens his mind to the possibility that the last chapter has not yet been written.
This is not a task to be taken lightly or done quickly.
This process shouldn’t be rushed and cannot be achieved through a single conversation. The goal is to simply plant the idea in his mind.
By using strategic language, you can plant a simple question in his mind, starting the process of changing his perspective.
Why? Because questions like these cannot be ignored by the human mind.
Our brains actively seek to find a response to questions by considering different potential answers.
That’s all it takes to make him consider that the conclusion of your relationship was only the starting point.
This is where things get interesting.
One way to phrase it could be:
“I can’t shake off the thought that our relationship’s finale may not have been written yet. It keeps nagging at me and I wonder why.”
Mention it in a relaxed manner and don’t wait for his response. It’s simply an observation about your own thoughts that you find entertaining.
Saying this raises the question in his mind.
Even if he tries to brush it off consciously, that question will impact his subconscious mind.
The way suggestion works does not involve negatives.
If I say to you, “Your leg no longer hurts,” the impact on the subconscious mind is thoughts, feelings, and imagery associated with the word “hurts.
The part about “no longer” is overlooked.
That’s why hypnotists only use affirmative language in the suggestions they aim to implant in someone’s mind.
Hypnotists say, “Observe the increasing comfort and relaxation in your leg as time goes on.”
They don’t say “Notice how your leg stopped hurting.”
Introduce the Concept to His Mind…by Creating Space
Asking about the potential future between the two of you prompts his mind to automatically imagine possibilities.
It’s similar to the film “Inception.” For those who are unfamiliar, “Inception” is a movie about implanting an idea in someone else’s mind.
The characters enter someone’s dream using a device that enables multiple people to experience the same dream, in order to plant a seed of an idea in the dreamer’s mind.
In the movie “Inception”, the architect of the dream constructs a secure environment, similar to a metal box used for storing confidential documents and valuable items.
Once that “space” has been created, the dreamer unconsciously places their secrets and desires within it, where they are kept safe and hidden.
It’s a habit that takes place unconsciously and instinctively.
This fictional story is rooted in the truth of how the subconscious mind operates, as evidenced by centuries of advancements in hypnotic suggestion.
Once the possibility of being loved by you again enters his mind, he will begin to self-reflect and question himself.
He will wonder if he still has any feelings for you.
This will prompt him to examine his feelings and potentially reopen his heart towards the possibility of being loved by you again.
This is the desired outcome and the means to unlocking the next stage.
Unlock the Next Chapter of Your Relationship
Once a new chapter begins, the story of your relationship can be restarted.
There’s a clean slate waiting to be filled with new experiences and memories, and if you desire to bring happiness and fulfillment to your relationship, I have a suggestion for you.
It’s a little-known fact about the male psyche that even men are unaware of.
The one desire they yearn for more intensely than anything else.
It’s a primal urge he can’t ignore and something that not many women understand how to provide.
It’s the one thing men secretly want but could never tell you.
Watch this free video presentation to explain what it is and how you can use it to get him back for good.
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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