It’s Easier Than Ever to Become a Top-Tier Man

Modern dating is a nightmare for average guys.

It has become near-on impossible for a regular dude to land a date since the rise of dating apps and social media.

These apps have made it easier for top-tier men to access ALL the attractive women in their city. And this has had a huge impact on women’s romantic standards. Once they’ve had a taste of a top-tier dude (even for one night), modern women won’t settle for anything less.

Data shows that most women are only chasing the top 10–20% of physically attractive men online. If you’re not in that small group, you’ll do well to earn a smidgen of female attention.

Thankfully, there is another way to be deemed a top-tier man — and that’s to approach women in the real world.

Your Competition Is Weaker Than Ever

Few men can approach and flirt with women in a way they enjoy these days.

Many are either too afraid or have lost interest. In fact, around half of young single men aren’t actively pursuing serious or casual relationships, according to recent Pew research. In other words, half of your competition have given up on all forms of dating. They’re not even in the game!

Some men are still trying to land dates, but they’re socially awkward. Others prefer to rely on dating apps, sliding in a woman’s Instagram DMs or sending women money on Twitch. Then, there are the ‘nice guys’ who are waiting for the perfect moment to ask out their one true love. That’s what happens when society trains men to be less masculine than ever.

Anyway, if you do learn to approach women in an exciting way, it can really impress them.

You don’t just put yourself to the front of the queue for a woman’s attention when you shoot your shot in the real world. You’ll also build a strong in-person connection.

It’s so rare for a modern man to do this that your woman might end up starstruck — and that can be enough for her to forget the hundreds of dudes in her DMs. You’ll be perceived as a top-tier guy when you show the ability to do this.

Your Shortcut Into The Top Tier

I know ‘offline dating’ works because I’ve been practicing it for the last 10 years. I’ve been able to date and seduce gorgeous women from all over the globe. That’s despite being 5’9”, bald and kind of funny-looking.

When you can showcase a winning personality and develop a strong emotional connection, your value rockets in a woman’s eyes.

It’s difficult to do this online. The strongest emotional bonds form in the real world. Once a woman senses one forming, interest in her online matches quickly fades.

That’s why ‘offline dating’ is the shortcut to becoming a top 10% man in the eyes of beautiful women. It’s like a magic pill.

Some guys use money to impress women. Others try to get jacked and wear the most expensive brands. In some cities, it’s more common to play the clout game.

These are all effective ways to attract more women — go ahead and try them all — but improving your personality and learning the art of real-life seduction is the easiest.

I can’t help but chuckle to myself when I walk hand-in-hand with a stunner past guys at their private nightclub table. They might have a Gucci belt and a bottle of Belvedere, but I had the courage to approach this woman, make her laugh, build a connection and pull her home.

This Skill Will Turn Your Life Around

I wouldn’t have had the courage to quit my job and travel the world solo without first learning this skill. My new-found communication skills allow me to make friends wherever I go. They’ve helped me build a career as a freelance writer and confidence coach.

It turned my life around. It not only increased my dating options, it made me happier, more confident and more comfortable in my own skin. This, in turn, makes me appear even more ‘top tier’ in the eyes of women.

That’s why I was so keen to write a book about it. My new book ‘Offline Dating’ explains the best way to approach, attract and seduce women in various offline environments. Bars, clubs, parties, busy streets, parks, beaches, gyms. You name it…

You’ll also learn how to develop the bravery, charisma and masculine prowess that drive women wild. There are sections on mastering your own mindset, understanding female psychology, building addictive relationships and more.

If you want a step-by-step guide to master the art of real-world seduction, this book is it. You can learn more about it by clicking here or watching the video below.

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This post was previously published on medium.com.

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