I have always wondered if my SO (significant other) may suspect something, but just kept quiet.
Today, while on vacation, I turned all notifications off and asked him to take a picture with my camera. Apparently, I didn’t realize I had not turned on my camera. With direct eye contact, he entered my passcode.
I had no clue he knew it. 🫣 My Telegram and WhatsApp apps are deeply hidden, and it would probably take hours to find them, but my hidden photo folders, yikes 😳
Oh, her husband KNOWS.
Looking at her in the eyes while entering it means she’s fucked.
*and not in the fun way she wants
He’s preparing for battle.
She’s cooked.
She can’t change her password now. It’s too suspicious. And she can use biometrics to get into her phone, but even that is eyebrow-raising considering the timing.
No photos. Ever. When will people ever learn? Telegram disappearing pics is the right way to “affair.” It still doesn’t prevent a screenshot, yet it sure makes getting and keeping incriminating photos much harder.
And don’t save anything.
Period.
No sexy videos. No photos. NOTHING.
If you must keep pics, put them in an unmarked, hidden locked folder with a biometric and passcode lock deep in the back of your phone. I think I have one or two shots of ex-lovers on my phone, all PG. You have a memory, and that should suffice.
Think about your phone passcode.
How many times has your spouse watched you type it in? Don’t you think they can guess what numbers you use? You aren’t that clever using your birthday or your pets name.
They aren’t stupid.
They know your habits. Your cliched passwords. Your default favorites.
You’re one step away from:
“I fell asleep, and my wife went through my phone.”
The warning shot has been fired.
All adulterers know the drill. Be vigilant. OPSEC is paramount, always when cheating. You can’t get lazy.
Cheaters who don’t want to get caught don’t slack off.
A cautionary tale from the front lines of infidelity. Listen and learn.
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Previously Published on Medium
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