Want to Be Irresistible? Start Here

Men are always wondering why women don’t just come out and reveal what they want in a partner.

They want to feel as though the woman respects, honors and desires them.

But it’s about more than physical attributes; in fact, it has more to do with who a guy is on the inside — women typically find men with these personality traits the most attractive.

Attraction starts to manifest within a man when he shows up for his life’s purpose and is authentic.

That change happens with the inner self in terms of how he feels, and this has a direct correlation with a man’s behavior and motivation in his daily life.

And, in turn, this creates a significant shift in his presence, where women are captivated by a man that knows his worth and carries it with respect and integrity.

Women typically find men with these 4 personality traits the most attractive

1. Purposefulness

Most relationship and dating advice will tell people that confidence is an irresistible trait.

But it’s hard to have confidence when you aren’t aligned with your purpose.

Having a purpose means having your eye on something that fulfills you and not letting anyone stand in the way of that.

While it doesn’t mean a guy needs to quit his 9-to-5 job and start something that fulfills him, he should plan and invest time in what fulfills him.

It’s not only incredibly attractive to women, but it requires full transparency with himself.

Feeling good about yourself is different than just being happy.

It means you recognize something you do well or a quality that makes you feel like a good person.

It is a sense of feeling worthy, that you matter and can make a difference in this world.”

2. Honesty

Women typically find men who are honest to be attractive.

It’s because being unapologetically honest shows confidence and also shows a woman that he has a lot of dignity. He has his own opinion, which means he isn’t just trying to impress and please her.

In fact, research found a link between honesty and attractiveness.

Researchers determined this was because of perceived warmth and openness associated with truth-telling.

3. Respect

Not only is respect in a relationship necessary for a long-term bond, it’s also something women look for when getting to know a man.

A respectful man doesn’t just take things slow and admire her boundaries, he doesn’t try to fix her or judge her.

According to research, women prefer men who are generous, which ties back into his level of respect for her, himself, and the people around him.

4. Humor

Women typically find men with a good sense of humor to be the most attractive.

Because when a man can make a woman laugh, they start to share a special bond with him, and women want to be around someone who brings happiness to the table.

Research found that men who make women laugh are more likely to score a date with her.

The idea that humor is a signal of intelligence doesn’t give humor its due credit.

If you meet someone who you can laugh with, it might mean your future relationship is going to be fun and filled with good cheer.”

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This post was previously published on medium.com.