About Jay Shaw

I’m a 41 year old man, and I’m not quite sure how that happened as I still feel like I look at the world with 16 year-old eyes. Happily cynical eyes.

When asked at school what I wanted to do with my life I replied with a shrug that I “wanted to draw”, so I consider myself rather lucky in that I’ve spent my entire career in drawing offices, surrounded by equally grumpy and childishly cynical men.

After the rather-later-than-usual revelation that women actually liked me I enjoyed the many benefits and pitfalls of single life before stumbling on the most perfect woman; we fit together and compliment each other more than I ever imagined possible. We are married with a teenage son, a toddler daughter and a clock that doesn't seem to have as many hours in the day as it used to.

Is BDSM Just a Phase?

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A dominant man’s sexuality matures and evolves with experience.