A Great Tragedy of Society

In other words they try to get illegitimate benefits from their position.

You will see this social tragedy in the husband-wife relationship, family, house, friendship, even in politics and country affairs.

CRUEL HUSBAND

One form of this worst tragedy is the cruel and angry husband, who humiliates the wife on every small and big thing and takes the unfair advantage of being a husband.

Actually, such a husband has three things in his mind.

1. I have the “weapon of divorce” with which I can blackmail my wife whenever I want.

2. I bear all the expenses of the house, wife and children, so I can humiliate the wife as much as I want.

3. My wife left her father’s house and came to me. Now she can’t go anywhere, it’s my choice, what language and behavior I should treat her, what harm will she do to me?

When the husband insists on his mistakes and abuses his position, eventually the wife gets bored and the relationship is close to breaking up.

Finally, the day comes when a woman is forced into divorce or separation.

Is it only the fault of the woman ???

If the man behaved with the right morals and did not take the wrong advantage of his position, then surely they would not have to see these days.

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WRONG PARENTING

Another terrible form of this worst tragedy is the inappropriate and unjust behavior of parents towards their children.

“It has been observed that parents do not treat their children with the same attitude.”

The child who has a harsh attitude and angry nature, parents talk to him in a good manner, accept all his demands and the most important thing is that even if such a child commits a terrible mistake, the parents still talk to him in a very gentle manner.

On the contrary, those children who have excellent qualities such as patience, good manners and politeness and respect for their parents, parents take out all their anger on them and also advise them in a sarcastic manner on everything.

“And even their small mistake makes parents look very big, Perhaps even bigger than the Himalayas”

Now this unfair attitude of parents keeps the siblings away from each other.

And children who are patient, become victims of feelings of inferiority.

“And they start getting jealous of their other brothers and sisters,
and slowly they leave the attitude of obeying parents.”

Does all the responsibility for their wrong behavior fall on them?

“Would it be right to turn a blind eye to this inappropriate behavior of parents?”

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POLITICIANS AND ATTITUDES

These tragic attitudes will see you even among politicians.

On the one hand, they use the national treasury freely for their illegal extravagances.

On the other hand, when it comes to the development of the country, illegal taxes are heaped on the nation.

And an even bigger disaster is that the law is only for the common people.

And this ruling class and their descendants are freed from all kinds of legal restraints and restrictions.

Due to the continuation of such attitudes, the flames of rebellion are ignited among the people.

Then the people protest on the streets to get their demands met, as a result of which the economy of the country goes down a lot.

Sometimes riots, and sometimes clashes with the police.

“Is only the public responsible for all this?

Isn’t it a bitter reality that the people took these steps after being fed up with the wrong decisions and wrong behavior of the rulers?

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So in summary we all must understand that, if anyone is a husband, father, mother, ruler, then he/she must fullfills duties, but also think that if , I’ll cross the limits then there will be opposite reaction.

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This post was previously published on medium.com.

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