
Red Pill influencers are a funny bunch.
They spend all this time lambasting single mothers, only to be caught with their pants down, dating and even marrying one.
Take Andrew Wilson.
He is one of the hosts on the popular Whatever Podcast, a show that fancies itself the premier Red Pill panel debate show, with the goal, according to their mission statement, of:
Trying to make sense of the modern dating hellscape. Talking about modern dating, relationships, hookup culture, and more!
Recently got called out by Charlie (Feminist, Leftist) on his hypocrisy:
Mind you, this is a man who has risen to notoriety for championing Christian traditionalism and being a low body count evangelist.
A man known for saying things like single mothers make poor choices, they are the bane of society, and they make for risky partners.
Yet here he is, married to a single mother of three.
He can’t even follow his own advice.
In fact, in 2024, I remember quite vividly on an episode of the Whatever podcast him saying that, and I quote: “If I were to advise somebody, if I were to tell a man, is it a good idea in 2024 to get together with a single mom, the answer is definitely no.”
Naturally, I would link back to the specific episode; only problem is, I don’t have the patience or the time to wade through toxic redpill bro content just to find it, so you are going to have to take my word on it.
Either way, it’s just hilarious how flustered he gets at Charlie for saying the truth.
He is not the first, and won’t be last
Last year, another prominent redpiller, who goes by the name Coolie, or Cooley, or whatever the hell his name is, got called out for dating and starting a family out of wedlock with a single mom of two. Just like Wilson, he too, hosts a popular Red Pill show called the No Fugazee Podcast.
All this from a man known for telling his followers that single mothers are for recreational use only, they are low value, and that they are responsible for creating weak, emotional men. I could keep going on with his nonsense, but I’m sure you get the drift.
These two knuckleheads are just a few in a string of hypocritical behaviors from the Red Pill.
You also have the likes of “Fresh,” aka Walter Weekes, from Fresh & Fit, who last year got entangled in a pregnancy scandal with an Instagram model, even though he constantly harps on about how women who model on Instagram should be avoided at all costs.
Again, like Wilson and Coolie, he couldn’t help but not follow his own advice.
And then you have the granddaddy of them all, the late Kevin Samuels.
No other person has done more to popularize the high-value, low-value man-woman mythos.
He too incessantly talked ill about women who have kids out of wedlock, despite having kids by women he never married. Inadvertently helping create the very problem he preaches against.
The Red Pill acts like a cult
Each time a Red Pill influencer gets exposed, not a single follower of theirs ever calls them out. There is zero accountability; it’s just business as usual. If anything, they are more likely to attack the person doing the exposé than the actual culprit.
Like pigs at a trough, they keep lapping up those pills.
It’s such a weird thing to see; it’s as if their followers are in this cult-like trance, and they can’t acknowledge that integrity and their idols are like water and oil — they don’t mix.
A lot of…
Nah, scratch that…
All of them, from Wilson right up to Fresh and Fit, are likely girfters; there is no other explanation. How else can we resolve the inconsistencies?
We need more dissenting voices from men
So why do I do this? Why do I still keep calling out the Red Pill and their bullshit?
Well, I do it because I believe it helps.
You see, I, too, used to be red-pilled.
It all started late in high school. Back then, I was inexperienced with women but desperately wanted a girlfriend. So I turned to the Pickup Artist community for the answer.
After consuming all I could from the likes of Neil Strauss and Mystery and still failing, I shifted to being an avid Tom Leykis fan. He seemed to validate my frustrations with women a lot more than the pickup artists. His brash, unapologetic demeanor made it as though he had it all figured out.
I remember how he used to teach men to avoid marriage and commitment because women are no good and will use a man for their own benefit. With his Leykis 101 radio show segment, he would offer tips on how to get sex for the least amount of effort, a precursor to what eventually became the Red Pill today.
After Leykis got taken off the air, I then pivoted to Stefan Molyneux. He seemed to give more grounded relationship advice that appealed to my philosophical side, even though he was still kinda sexist. But that only lasted until the Trayvon Martin incident, when I discovered how much of a racist shitbag he was.
And that’s when I really began my weaning phase. I started reading about Nonviolent Communication (NVC) by Marshall Rosenberg, and the likes of The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. These dissenting voices were in part the reason I ended up moving away from all that negativity.
Sometimes all you need is a little push
I know that not every single person who follows the Red Pill is entrenched in that ideology.
There will always be a few on the fence or at least open to listening to the counterarguments.
And that’s where people like me come in. I might not be able to convince them to leave the Red Pill immediately, but at least I can help by sowing seeds of doubt, much like those descending voices did for me.
That’s why I continue to do what I do.
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I saw a video of the other Fresh & Fit dork getting called out, too.
A guest brought up that he always tells men that all women are “gold diggers” and just use men for money…but he goes to “sugar baby” websites to find the women he dates, so he purposely seeks out women like that.
He was clearly caught off guard and pissed. It was glorious!