Your ‘Friend’ Blocked You. What Do You Do?

A real friend will try to salvage the relationship and open the lines of communication to create understanding and clarity.

September 8, 2018 by Ashley Berges Leave a Comment

You and a friend had an argument, a little later you reach out to that friend and instead of communication and clearing the air, you find out that they’ve blocked you on social media and blocked you on their phone. What do you do? Do you retaliate and tell your other friends about this person? Do you get revenge? These ideas sound interesting at the time, but they are not the suggested pathway.

So what do you do? First off you want to realize the truth of the situation and the truth of your relationship. A real friend will try to salvage the relationship and open the lines of communication to create understanding and clarity. Another thing to look for are the red flags in the relationship. Were there several red flags that you neglected to notice? Could you’ve safeguarded yourself? Why did you enter this relationship in the first place?

Often when we examine the history of the relationship we see patterns in our relationships, and these patterns may be presented through situations that are adverse and antithetical to our happiness. These questions will help you understand how you got there and personal things you may need to work on.

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About Ashley Berges

I’ve dedicated my life to searching, advocating, and offering a powerful and practical perspective for people to live a more rewarding life. I work to share the necessary life tools for helping people to identify their true self, identifying one’s true life separate from the growing up process and the possible unhealthy family dynamic. Once you're able to identify the "original you", and discover what it is you believe at the core of your being, you can then cultivate and nurture a solid identity based on your values, beliefs, and finding unconditional self-love for yourself. I’m the host of the nationally syndicated radio show on USA Radio Networks, Live Your True Life Perspectives, we discuss topics on relationships, psychology, mindfulness, self-worth, and the list goes on. There’s also a podcast you can listen to on Apple Podcasts, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and Spreaker amongst others.
I created a show called The Celebrity Perspective on Amazon Prime with some amazing celebrities being honest and true about themselves, how they feel and what they want from life. I’m the Live Your True Life Coach, Toxic Relationship to Divine Identity Coach and my latest book: The 10 Day Challenge to Live Your True Life. The 10 Day Challenge is a lifetime guidebook to making the most of your life, to understanding your pure identity, and to become the best version of you.

Find me at AshleyBerges.com or on Facebook.