Attractiveness buys leeway not permission
About Nikhil
The Risk of Loving: Why We Lean in Even When We Know it Could Hurt
You hand someone the map to your secret rooms, your masks and hope they don’t lose it.
You hand someone the map to your secret rooms, your masks and hope they don’t lose it.
Love Is Not a Buffet
More partners does not mean freedom.
More partners does not mean freedom.
Your Parents Are as Important as Your Spouse
Culture complicates everything.
Culture complicates everything.
She Has to Split Bills
Not wait till marriage…
Not wait till marriage…
My Wife Is Asexual
For people who like boxes and labels, it means she doesn’t experience sexual attraction. Not that she hates sex, or is broken, or is secretly into something else.
For people who like boxes and labels, it means she doesn’t experience sexual attraction. Not that she hates sex, or is broken, or is secretly into something else.
Stay, Don’t Swipe: Why Sex Is Easy & Commitment Feels Impossible
A messy, human take from someone who wants more than midnight texts and disappearing acts.
A messy, human take from someone who wants more than midnight texts and disappearing acts.
When ‘Good Vibes Only’ Becomes a Trap
Why always chasing positivity can be emotionally exhausting.
Why always chasing positivity can be emotionally exhausting.
Why Couples are Choosing DINK
Double Income No Kids and what it means for the future of humanity.
Double Income No Kids and what it means for the future of humanity.
Love Starts With Romance, but Lasts With Partnership
The real strength of love is found in patience, respect, and the life you build together.
The real strength of love is found in patience, respect, and the life you build together.
What Do My iPhone, Traveling, and My Wife Have in Common?
A journey from solo frames to shared memories (and being pulled into the picture).
A journey from solo frames to shared memories (and being pulled into the picture).
Why We Need to Stop Searching for the “Gay Gene”
Because sexuality isn’t a math equation – and we’re more than labels, lines, or lab reports.
Because sexuality isn’t a math equation – and we’re more than labels, lines, or lab reports.
When Words Aren’t Needed: How I Learned to Value Just Being There
Some of the deepest bonds don’t need conversations – only presence.
Some of the deepest bonds don’t need conversations – only presence.
I Married the Rom-Com, But I’m in Love With the Darkness
Why my favorite shows are filled with serial killers – and hers with swoon-worthy smiles.
Why my favorite shows are filled with serial killers – and hers with swoon-worthy smiles.
Speed Dating in Tokyo and the Loneliness I Didn’t Expect to Find
How one night in Japan made me reflect on connection, silence, and what we’re all afraid to say out loud.
How one night in Japan made me reflect on connection, silence, and what we’re all afraid to say out loud.
The Sex Trap: How Hyper-Sexualisation Is Quietly Destroying Love, Confidence, and the Future
We’re drowning in sex appeal, but starving for real connection.
We’re drowning in sex appeal, but starving for real connection.