Treva Brandon Scharf

Falling in Love Is Scary AF

When you fall in love, you have no control, no grip, no balance. You’re vulnerable, powerless, dizzy, exposed.

April 30, 2023 by Treva Brandon Scharf Leave a Comment

When you fall in love, you have no control, no grip, no balance. You’re vulnerable, powerless, dizzy, exposed.

10 Life & Love Lessons From Me and Navy Seal Admiral McRaven

I bet you didn’t know (and I’m sure he doesn’t know either) but Navy SEAL Admiral William H. McRaven is an accidental dating and relationship expert.

April 9, 2023 by Treva Brandon Scharf Leave a Comment

I bet you didn’t know (and I’m sure he doesn’t know either) but Navy SEAL Admiral William H. McRaven is an accidental dating and relationship expert.

If You Ask Me, Love Isn’t Blind Enough

Before online dating, before dating apps, social media, and the internet, there was this thing called a “Blind Date.”

April 2, 2023 by Treva Brandon Scharf Leave a Comment

Before online dating, before dating apps, social media, and the internet, there was this thing called a “Blind Date.”

Stop Waiting for People to Love You

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the things we do for love. The knots we twist ourselves into, the hoops we jump through.

March 26, 2023 by Treva Brandon Scharf Leave a Comment

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the things we do for love. The knots we twist ourselves into, the hoops we jump through.

Romance Is Dying, Here’s How to Save It

Sorry, technology, I love you, but you’re ruining romance. You’re killing it. Sucking the life out of it. You’re the death knell of courtship—a soon-to-be lost art if someone doesn’t do something about it.

March 19, 2023 by Treva Brandon Scharf Leave a Comment

Sorry, technology, I love you, but you’re ruining romance. You’re killing it. Sucking the life out of it. You’re the death knell of courtship—a soon-to-be lost art if someone doesn’t do something about it.

Dating Post-50: You Just Might Get What You Need

So what does a single man in midlife looking for love really want? A lot less than you’d think.

March 12, 2023 by Treva Brandon Scharf Leave a Comment

So what does a single man in midlife looking for love really want? A lot less than you’d think.

Put Yourself on Your Own Damn Pedestal

There was a time in my life when love was so elusive, when committed relationships felt so unobtainable, and marriage so out of reach, it had me convinced I wasn’t good enough, and that everyone was too good for me.

March 5, 2023 by Treva Brandon Scharf Leave a Comment

There was a time in my life when love was so elusive, when committed relationships felt so unobtainable, and marriage so out of reach, it had me convinced I wasn’t good enough, and that everyone was too good for me.