Because I care about you, I’m giving you this gift of tough love and brutal honesty. Please don’t hate me.
It’s OK to Hate Being Single
There, I said it. You can too.
There, I said it. You can too.
1 Tip to Survive & Thrive Being Single After 50
These days, surviving single life is less about mastering solitude and doing the inner work, and more about getting out of the damn house!
These days, surviving single life is less about mastering solitude and doing the inner work, and more about getting out of the damn house!
The Golden Bachelor, a Golden Opportunity
My thoughts on aging, and what we think it should look like.
My thoughts on aging, and what we think it should look like.
The 3 Dirtiest Words in Dating: Benching, Breadcrumbing, Ghosting
If you’ve been a victim of one of these dirty dating practices, you have my sympathies.
If you’ve been a victim of one of these dirty dating practices, you have my sympathies.
How to Tell She’s Playing Hard to Get and What You Should Do
This technique contributes to much of the frustration and misunderstanding in dating.
This technique contributes to much of the frustration and misunderstanding in dating.
Looking for a New Relationship? We’ve Gotta Bring Back Flirting!
Flirting has been dying for a while, and it’s not the pandemic that was responsible for its demise. It’s online dating.
Flirting has been dying for a while, and it’s not the pandemic that was responsible for its demise. It’s online dating.
Vulnerability Is the New Black
Vulnerability is the scariest ride you’ll ever take, but daring to step on it is the first step to conquering it.
Vulnerability is the scariest ride you’ll ever take, but daring to step on it is the first step to conquering it.
We Need to Have a Talk About Having ‘The Talk’
Here’s the thing with “The Talk:” what you gain in answers, you lose in self-determination.
Here’s the thing with “The Talk:” what you gain in answers, you lose in self-determination.
Falling in Love Is Scary AF
When you fall in love, you have no control, no grip, no balance. You’re vulnerable, powerless, dizzy, exposed.
When you fall in love, you have no control, no grip, no balance. You’re vulnerable, powerless, dizzy, exposed.
10 Life & Love Lessons From Me and Navy Seal Admiral McRaven
I bet you didn’t know (and I’m sure he doesn’t know either) but Navy SEAL Admiral William H. McRaven is an accidental dating and relationship expert.
I bet you didn’t know (and I’m sure he doesn’t know either) but Navy SEAL Admiral William H. McRaven is an accidental dating and relationship expert.
If You Ask Me, Love Isn’t Blind Enough
Before online dating, before dating apps, social media, and the internet, there was this thing called a “Blind Date.”
Before online dating, before dating apps, social media, and the internet, there was this thing called a “Blind Date.”
Stop Waiting for People to Love You
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the things we do for love. The knots we twist ourselves into, the hoops we jump through.
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the things we do for love. The knots we twist ourselves into, the hoops we jump through.
Romance Is Dying, Here’s How to Save It
Sorry, technology, I love you, but you’re ruining romance. You’re killing it. Sucking the life out of it. You’re the death knell of courtship—a soon-to-be lost art if someone doesn’t do something about it.
Sorry, technology, I love you, but you’re ruining romance. You’re killing it. Sucking the life out of it. You’re the death knell of courtship—a soon-to-be lost art if someone doesn’t do something about it.
Dating Post-50: You Just Might Get What You Need
So what does a single man in midlife looking for love really want? A lot less than you’d think.
So what does a single man in midlife looking for love really want? A lot less than you’d think.
Put Yourself on Your Own Damn Pedestal
There was a time in my life when love was so elusive, when committed relationships felt so unobtainable, and marriage so out of reach, it had me convinced I wasn’t good enough, and that everyone was too good for me.
There was a time in my life when love was so elusive, when committed relationships felt so unobtainable, and marriage so out of reach, it had me convinced I wasn’t good enough, and that everyone was too good for me.