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About Treva Brandon Scharf
Your Phone Is Keeping You Single. Here’s Why
We all know phones can be intrusive and distracting, but if you’re single, your phone could be doing something worse: it could be keeping you single.
We all know phones can be intrusive and distracting, but if you’re single, your phone could be doing something worse: it could be keeping you single.
Men, Where Have You Gone? I Think I May Know
A conversation single people need to have.
A conversation single people need to have.
8 Low-Risk Ways to Make the First Move (Women, You too)
Before you lose your sh*t and say no f-ing way, hear me out.
Before you lose your sh*t and say no f-ing way, hear me out.
AI Is Not Your GF or BF!
I don’t care how lonely or unsatisfied you get, don’t fall in love with a romance chatbot!
I don’t care how lonely or unsatisfied you get, don’t fall in love with a romance chatbot!
Single People, Are You Misbehaving in the Dating World?
Don’t make me take you over my knee!
Don’t make me take you over my knee!
Trump Is Making My Job Harder as a Dating Coach
Because kindness is in short supply, and rudeness abounds, dating has become a hellscape.
Because kindness is in short supply, and rudeness abounds, dating has become a hellscape.
Have You Ever Thought the Problem Might Be You?
Because I care about you, I’m giving you this gift of tough love and brutal honesty. Please don’t hate me.
Because I care about you, I’m giving you this gift of tough love and brutal honesty. Please don’t hate me.
It’s OK to Hate Being Single
There, I said it. You can too.
There, I said it. You can too.
1 Tip to Survive & Thrive Being Single After 50
These days, surviving single life is less about mastering solitude and doing the inner work, and more about getting out of the damn house!
These days, surviving single life is less about mastering solitude and doing the inner work, and more about getting out of the damn house!
The Golden Bachelor, a Golden Opportunity
My thoughts on aging, and what we think it should look like.
My thoughts on aging, and what we think it should look like.
The 3 Dirtiest Words in Dating: Benching, Breadcrumbing, Ghosting
If you’ve been a victim of one of these dirty dating practices, you have my sympathies.
If you’ve been a victim of one of these dirty dating practices, you have my sympathies.
How to Tell She’s Playing Hard to Get and What You Should Do
This technique contributes to much of the frustration and misunderstanding in dating.
This technique contributes to much of the frustration and misunderstanding in dating.
Looking for a New Relationship? We’ve Gotta Bring Back Flirting!
Flirting has been dying for a while, and it’s not the pandemic that was responsible for its demise. It’s online dating.
Flirting has been dying for a while, and it’s not the pandemic that was responsible for its demise. It’s online dating.
Vulnerability Is the New Black
Vulnerability is the scariest ride you’ll ever take, but daring to step on it is the first step to conquering it.
Vulnerability is the scariest ride you’ll ever take, but daring to step on it is the first step to conquering it.
We Need to Have a Talk About Having ‘The Talk’
Here’s the thing with “The Talk:” what you gain in answers, you lose in self-determination.
Here’s the thing with “The Talk:” what you gain in answers, you lose in self-determination.